Not replying to text messages?

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This girl who I have known for a long time since childhood and is part of my acquaintance circle (I don’t see the woman and her friends that regurley at the pub but they do show up from time to time). Well recently on weekends when I am out I have tried texting her but she has not responded to my messages. If you want me to be honest she has seen me drunk before at the pub I go to. On one occasion she did advise me to find other hobbies than going to the pub.

Do you think this means that the she dislikes me? The last time I saw her was a few months ago when she saw me drunk and being asked to leave the pub.

She might be busy or didn't see your message.
You might want to wait for her to message.

A few weeks ago I tried to message and she did not responded.

I texted her last night again and she did not reply back either. So that 2 times I have tried to message and not been given a response back.

I think it's best to let it go then.

Perhaps she'll make contact you again when she's in the mood to. Sometimes there are people I don't hear from for months then out of the blue they'll respond from their side.

if she's the type to appreciate it, try sending her a funny cute animal videoclip...

I would imagine she has many men texting her, and probably only responds to a few who she is really interested in. She doesnt want to lead you on, so simply not replying is the best option for her.

If she were to reply, you might eventually get those feelings.
It seems rude what she is doing but it's all for the best in the long run

Sounds like she and you have an established "acquaintanceship", and she chooses not to respond to your messages, which is rather rude, which clearly means that she doesn't want to communicate with you at least for now. I think you had better let it go rather than wasting your time thinking about someone who treats you in such a way. You have better things to do. I would personally end the "acquaintanceship" with her because someone who's capable of doing that will do that again.