Noamx wrote:
To be honest, I agree, but atleast here in my country(Israel), there are alot of women who are immature and even women who are 25+ here behave like a 15 years old, for some reason. I dont really know why, thats just how the culture is like here. Yeah, its a very sad situation, no doubt about it, and I'm kind of jealous at Canadians and Americans who tend to be more mature at the age range of 21 - 30 or so. Here, its the complete opposite. The women here are so immature, its crazy man. But other than that, they're also not taking anything seriously, so "getting laid" isnt even relevant, and trust and respect is difficult to do when the woman is so immature and fails to take a relationship seriously. So thats the problem I'm dealing with now, I havent yet really found a woman who is mature enough to her age, which means I need to work harder to find the right one. Its a big problem, and Israeli women have a tendency to be immature, gold diggers, closed minded, or all at once. Sad, right? What do you think about all this?
I really doubt that Israeli women are especially immature. My wife's female ancestors were Ashkenazi Jews and they took responsibility for EVERYTHING while their husbands spent their free time davening. My wife also takes on too much responsibility if you ask me, especially in comparison to her two brothers. When I was in Israel, I got the impression that Israelis thought Westerners were relatively child like because they hadn't spent their entire lives facing an existential threat. Most of them knew somebody who had died in the War of 1973 CE. It might not be quite the same today, but your understanding of women is probably a major hindrance in your goal to find romance. If you have female family members, you should perhaps ask to discuss your views with them and after they're done screaming at you they might tell you some things to help you understand. Painful but necessary medicine.