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Stitchlovergirl101
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05 Sep 2022, 9:08 am

I've been heartbroken for 29 years I am diagnosed with Aspergers Ive gotten treated bad by every guy I was with at this point I just feel like a failure when it comes to relationships all guys do is break up with me just because they don't want to treat me right and nobody gives me any chances to be friends or show me any compassion or love when Ive done all the work



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05 Sep 2022, 11:50 pm

Sweet Pea hugs


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07 Sep 2022, 7:53 pm

You've been treated badly by every guy you were with and feel bad at relationships and that nobody gives you any recognition.



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11 Sep 2022, 9:42 am

I’d rather go away from a guy who “can’t” treat you right.

There are many guys who “can.”



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12 Sep 2022, 10:53 am

Stitchlovergirl101 wrote:
I've been heartbroken for 29 years
Were you going out with men when you were in nappies?


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12 Sep 2022, 5:43 pm

Being single can be a great thing, a chance to be selfish for once! ☺️ Better than a toxic relationship anyway. At least you can build stronger boundaries from this experience.



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12 Sep 2022, 5:47 pm

Stitchlovergirl101 wrote:
I've been heartbroken for 29 years I am diagnosed with Aspergers Ive gotten treated bad by every guy I was with at this point I just feel like a failure when it comes to relationships all guys do is break up with me just because they don't want to treat me right and nobody gives me any chances to be friends or show me any compassion or love when Ive done all the work


I had frustrating experience with women. But its different in the following way. They weren't being jerks; instead they assumed that I would be a jerk and protected themselves. But I never intended to be a jerk. Sometimes I am thinking that the guys that "are" jerks (such as the ones you are describing) are the reasons why the nice guys like myself aren't being trusted.