chris1989 wrote:
I'd like to point out though that I'm not saying all positivity is a bad thing. Of course its a good thing but I don't think it should forced upon someone if that person is having a bad time or in a negative mindset for a period of time and made to feel guilty or ashamed if they are feeling negative in that moment.
So you would rather have people leave you alone while you are in a negative stupor than have people urge you to think positively? Generally people aren't forcing positivity in that circumstance, rather recommending it.
Good grief, if you have people in your life who actually make you feel guilty or ashamed of feeling negative you need to get those people out of your.
Would you like it if you were feeling down no one cared? If that that is the case, why are you here?
My wife likes to talk about people "feeling good about feeling bad". While as a person who has suffered from some pretty dark depression I kind of resent that, I know there are those people and I know who and what she is talking about.