What kind of people are good for an INTJ

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Sea Gull
Sea Gull

Joined: 22 Aug 2018
Age: 25
Gender: Male
Posts: 246

07 Jul 2023, 5:11 pm

I need some change in my life.

So, that might be easier with someone else's help. I don't like talking to people or being warm with them. But as you know from my previous topics, I want to be successful and live independantly. So, I will try dealing with them and get some help. What type of people should I try to be close with and collaborate with ?

Its difficult to find like minded guys, everyone is too normal and NT


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Joined: 14 Jul 2019
Gender: Female
Posts: 2,704

08 Jul 2023, 8:22 pm

All types! I am one for variety, but enjoy similarities also. I am an ENFP and my BFF is an ISTJ and my husband is ISTP. Apparently I went more "opposites attract". I find like-minded people doing what I like to do and shared life experiences: in my case libraries and dancing and parenting. When I am with my BFF, she talks 25% and I talk 75% and we consider that a good balance for us. Still, at home and at work it's easier to get along with friends and coworkers who share more-or-less similar core values. Good luck!