I can't help with earbuds as I strongly dislike them. However, many Motorolas still have a headphone jack. Where Samsung went hard into no jack, Motorola considers having a headphone jack a selling point. The Moto takes an SD card still, as well.
I went happily from a Samsung Note to a Motorola 5G Stylus. Much cheaper (half the cost to purchase), has a headphone jack, and still has the stylus. The stylus is not as accurate as the Samsung's, but it suffices for my purposes.