Which of these physical traits do you like in a man?

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Which of these physical traits do you like in a man? (multi-choice)
I'm not attracted to men 3%  3%  [ 2 ]
A nice smile 16%  16%  [ 12 ]
A youthful looking face 4%  4%  [ 3 ]
Short hair 3%  3%  [ 2 ]
Long hair 3%  3%  [ 2 ]
Blonde or red hair 4%  4%  [ 3 ]
Dark colored hair 14%  14%  [ 10 ]
Being short in stature 4%  4%  [ 3 ]
Being tall in stature 10%  10%  [ 7 ]
Long legs 1%  1%  [ 1 ]
Big Thighs 4%  4%  [ 3 ]
Slim figure 5%  5%  [ 4 ]
A curvy figure that's not too obese 5%  5%  [ 4 ]
Obesity 1%  1%  [ 1 ]
Wide hips 1%  1%  [ 1 ]
Big butt 5%  5%  [ 4 ]
Large chest 4%  4%  [ 3 ]
Small chest 0%  0%  [ 0 ]
Clear skin 11%  11%  [ 8 ]
Total votes : 73

ThePerpetualLoner
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03 Sep 2023, 2:49 am

I dont know why this is..

But i can not differentiate physical traits. Everyone looks the same to me to start with..if someone is considered attractive or ugly I am clueless.

After getting to know someone I then think they are gods gift. I will then see how nice their eyes are, what a perfect nose ect and a person people consider unattractive i will see as an adonis haha

Its the same as myself though, i can look in the mirror one day and think i am horrendous, but then the next day I will be stunning..i am like oh wow how did i get a new face over night?

Please tell me I am not the only one with this bizarre condition haha i worry I will be under the illusion i am amazing one day and wander around looking like a turd.



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03 Sep 2023, 2:57 am

WisteriaRose wrote:
Dark, twinkling eyes
Melancholy brow
Unkempt locks of dark or greying hair
Broad shoulders
Square jaw

:heart: :heart: :heart:


Hell yeah.
Or bald with a goat.


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04 Sep 2023, 10:43 am

ThePerpetualLoner wrote:
I dont know why this is..

But i can not differentiate physical traits. Everyone looks the same to me to start with..if someone is considered attractive or ugly I am clueless.


I definitely like different types of men than those considered conventionally attractive. I find the popular men boring and too perfect. I like a bit of character.

But with women I cannot tell the difference. Similar to what you say- they all look the same to me and I can't tell them apart for ages, til I get to know them. This probably explains why I have few women friends- they probably think I'm being unfriendly but I just don't recognise who spoke to me last time or who interacted with me.


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27 Sep 2023, 10:54 am

I like a good looking person like anyone else, but it's not physical qualities that turn me on. I'm purely a personality person. I can't fall in love before I get to know someone well and deemed them worthy.


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