Thanks Duck. I've more or less decided not to go. The first lady, A, is really nice, but the second one, T, seems to take offence easily. I know I've offended her somehow in the past due to her strange comments to me, but I've no idea what I did or how to cope with that. Three is a crowd, that is really true and I'm bound to be excluded, say something wrong etc. The last time I went out in a trio it was horrendous and I was the butt of all the jokes.
Also I don't want them poking their noses into my life e.g. finding out about our house move next year, my mum's dementia, my daughter's various problems. I am pretty secretive about my life.
I've just got to figure out a text to send that won't offend them too much...
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That alien woman. On Earth to observe and wonder about homo sapiens.