Same.
I'm 31, only been in one relationship with a girl who also had numerous mental health issues and was probably on the spectrum (no DX), which isn't a problem at all because i'm not looking for an NT. That was 5 years ago.
I will never lower my standards. College educated isn't really a standard though and you'll likely end up throwing it out the more you meet college educated women and compare them to non-college educated women. There's really no difference.
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I’ve been on over five different dating sites. And as soon a match would find out that I’m autistic without giving me any reason or explanation, would just block me.
Absolutely no reason to be telling a match you're autistic (different), same as there's no reason she needs to know if you still live with your parents (they live with you), don't have a job (self employed) or just got out of jail (nomad), although; those three are cat-nip for some women-It doesn't benefit the potential of the relationship no matter how serious of a topic.
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But I found it increasingly difficult to match with people, or even get past the first step of just communicating as I would almost immediately get blocked, despite being very socially despite being very socially, appropriate and polite.
It's a warped system with very few rules. It doesn't matter how sociable or polite you are. Same with regular people, all that matters are the bass notes. Women will interpret being insociable and impolite as masculine traits even though they have nothing to do with securing a good long term partner. If you're a funny guy you could be a complete jerk, if you're good looking, you could be everything women say they hate in a man, and they'll still be fawning over you. It's opposite day, every day.Quote:
Back in 2015 a girl asked me out on a date which ended up being a prank. To the girls shock after she revealed that she never really had feelings for me, and was just pretending, I told her this whole time I was expecting this and I even showed her a Facebook message that I sent to myself on messenger predicting that very outcome and I also told her this is exactly why I’m probably never going to be in a relationship And that if I ever will, it will be after I turn 30 and it will be a very toxic and unstable relationship, and it will end only after a few months.
I used to do this, still as psychic as ever. Even just two months ago, I thought I had found "the one"... again. lol. I waited for the signals before shutting it down and calling her out, broke a record-took a week and a half this time. I don't miss.
I used to wonder what in god's name could posses someone to throw away such a high level of compatibility with a random person they'll meet only a handful of times in a lifetime. It wasn't until I started seeing it as a virus that I realized what I was dealing with.
That girl from two months ago was honestly difficult to pin down because the messages were very mixed, for example; she wasn't interested in spending time with me, but extremely interested in me when we did. I advise you to remember that is no such thing as mixed signals, only negative signals pretending to be positive signals. Compatibility with her was through the roof, so I thought she would at least try to offer an explanation when I went through my concerns with her-not even a tiny bit. She just disappeared, probably to one of the 289 other guys she's working on building her portfolio with.
You can only feel sorry for people like that, they'll never land, always chasing the next, and the next, until they hit a hard limit, then will curse all men for never forcing her to stop, she's responsible for her own life.
Don't get too invested until you confirm she's legit (very rare these days).
You're a man, you have a lot of time
Beat the game and win. I certainly plan to.
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