rse92 wrote:
Get on the phone with her and ask. Just as you would have had to in the old days. When she says she will send it, get her to commit: will you get this to me tomorrow?
The thing is, I don't do telephones because of my mutism. I'd be terrified to make a phone call and then I'd stumble over my words. I'm always better in writing because I can edit before I send it, and I don't have to worry about the tone of my voice etc. I also hate phone calls in case it goes to voice mail. I've never left a voicemail for anyone in my life.
I know a phone call is the normal thing to do, but I guess you could say I'm not normal.
rse92 wrote:
There doesn't have to be conflict. Just a conversation between two adults. You want and need the receipt. This way you get it without her being embarrassed, or her feeling like you embarrassed her.
I agree. I'm just not sure how to bring it up again on email without seeming like I'm pestering her, even though it would be justified. I think the issue is that she has to format how to make formal receipts when working from home. Normally I pay the company she works for, by credit card. Those receipts are autogenerated so now she'll have to format something professional for her private work.
I just don't know how to be assertive. That's a better word than angry. My mortgage payment will bounce if I don't get this thing soon, though.
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