I want to remember this friendship as it was

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For the past few years, I have been talking to someone who I attended Jr. and Sr. with. We have been talking about reconnecting me with another woman who I used to be friends with. That said, it never worked out because the relationship was not authentic or healthy. For one thing, she threw me under the bus and other things that betrayed my trust many times. I feel like she is extremely manipulative by playing the victim so she can look for sympathy. Plus I didn't feel like we ever had any thing in common.

However, she and the other person are very close friend and I am scared to tell her the truth. Rather, I told that I didn't think we have anything in common and that we would probably bring the worst out in each other.

Sounds like you handled it better than I would have.

I appreciate that but there was a time where I would have bluntly lashed out at her. However, I learned that she likes it whenever you can give her ammunition.