I have no friends

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The world hates me and no one likes me.
My partner hates me. I want to die.

Is that really true or is that your brain trying to maintain the status quo and trying to keep you "safe" from change and/or even more hurt?

Then you've come to the right place. It's normal to have no friends on this planet.

I actually have no one . My airport workers are really unavailable moat of the time. I'm homeless and just hate my life I can't get help anywhere

Hi there neighbour, I'm just down the motorway from you on the coast.

Plenty of people here who can relate. Tell us a bit more about yourself if you like, if not welcome aboard and hope things pick up for you.

I'm sorry to hear that you are going through that. You can talk to us here.

I'm on the Gold Coast

Have you been diagnosed or are you thinking you have The 'Tism?

Being misunderstood isn't the same as being hated. I doubt there are many people in your life who actively hate you. They may misunderstand you or find you a bit weird, but that isn't hatred. For the few who actually do hate you (and we all have them), who cares? Just cut those folk out of your life if they're toxic to you.

It's easy for people like us to get stuck in the love/hate mindset as we tend to view things in black and white, when the world is actually full of many shades of grey. They'll be a few people who hate you, the vast majority of people who have no real opinion about you one way or the other (the casual folk in your life) and a few people who genuinely love you.

Your partner certainly doesn't hate you, otherwise they wouldn't be with you. They may get confused, frustrated or angry with you if their own mind doesn't roll in the same way yours does. But they don't hate you.

No friends too, life sucks and all that. I feel ya.

I think some of us got the short straw.

But...

That is not why we are here, as human beings I mean.

We are here to experience the life we have and that is that, good or bad.

I had a rotten day, but in the midst of the rottenness, there were little moments of magic. That star in the sky before sunrise, the smell of the air at dawn, the insects on the lawn, the change of the season. It is those little things we notice that are most important. Not what our minds are telling us.