Same for me. I can stand it with people I know very well as long as I'm warned before it happens, but otherwise it just seems very rude. And then other people think I'm being rude when I react.
When you're a kid they teach you about "personal space" but no one seems to care.
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Diagnosed ASD/ADHD age 5. Finally understood that age 17.
Have very strong opinions so sorry if I offend anyone--I still respect your opinion.
Please use any pronouns you want.
Feel free to PM me--I like to talk about most things other than sports.