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Tim999
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17 Jul 2024, 4:56 pm

Ok, Autism and dating is a bit of a mine field, I am probably autistic and awaiting a test later this month, the fact of the matter is I have just exited a relationship that was frankly toxic, an older woman took a shine to me one Sunday a few months ago after a church service and solicited me for my phone numbers, at first it was very good, then when I told her I probably have autism she promptly dumped me using the excuse that I had put a friend up for one night in my own house who had travelled a grate distance and arrived at one in the morning, the only word that comes to mind is narcasistic, given my situation I am seeking a suitable autistic lady some 10 to 15 years younger then my self who understands what it is to be autistic and who i can connect with :)



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17 Jul 2024, 7:46 pm

The one who understands you is more promising.



bee33
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19 Jul 2024, 12:20 am

I'm sorry how things turned out with this woman. I hope you find someone who understands and appreciates you.



Elgee
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20 Jul 2024, 1:22 pm

Why must she be 10-15 years younger? Do you want to control her or something?
Or is it about looks, no wrinkles or sagging skin?
Or is it about fertility, you're getting up there in years and never had kids but want little feet pitter pattering around the house?

I'm autistic and would LOVE to have an autistic man. Shame on that woman. Doesn't matter if she was older than you.