It feels good to get even with a bully

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26 Jul 2024, 1:38 pm

Today I was driving my personal car to the grocery store. The person behind me was tailgating me right behind the bumper even though I was going about 10 mph over the speed limit. So I hit the brakes and turned on a side road. It has recently rained, so the driver slid off the road and crashed into a utility pole. Airbag went off.

Getting back at bullies feels great. Before I learned how to suppress my autism, I was always the target of bullies. Now, I just got even with one.



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26 Jul 2024, 10:26 pm

Just don't end up killing anyone or permanently maim them.
It can get you in trouble with the law.


And one doesn't need suppressing one's autism to assert themselves, unless their idea of being autistic is to suppress themselves in another way; that's just mindset and perceived dynamics.


Are you the type who can even wish someone the worst thing you ever have (like you with autism) even towards your worst enemies?

Because I am. :lol:


Sure it feels good.
But I outgrowing such need and want ... :lol:


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26 Jul 2024, 11:40 pm

FrostBender wrote:
Today I was driving my personal car to the grocery store. The person behind me was tailgating me right behind the bumper even though I was going about 10 mph over the speed limit. So I hit the brakes and turned on a side road. It has recently rained, so the driver slid off the road and crashed into a utility pole. Airbag went off.

Getting back at bullies feels great. Before I learned how to suppress my autism, I was always the target of bullies. Now, I just got even with one.

Here is a link that might interest you:  Reddit's Petty Revenge Forum .


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27 Jul 2024, 8:05 am

Fnord wrote:
FrostBender wrote:
Today I was driving my personal car to the grocery store. The person behind me was tailgating me right behind the bumper even though I was going about 10 mph over the speed limit. So I hit the brakes and turned on a side road. It has recently rained, so the driver slid off the road and crashed into a utility pole. Airbag went off.

Getting back at bullies feels great. Before I learned how to suppress my autism, I was always the target of bullies. Now, I just got even with one.

Here is a link that might interest you:  Reddit's Petty Revenge Forum .


I had a bully in school and I just used to shoot out my bedroom window at his house.

Another great revenge wasn't done via me but by the criminal courts against a creepy couple that uses to mock me (sexually) over my autism. Turned out the family really were creepy and a lengthy prison sentence was handed out.

The wife........Good god did we tear her to shreds. She was the one we hated most. Everyone ganged up on her, even her close friends. It was great. Last time I spotted her she was talking to a friend who worked on a checkout at a shop. She quickly scurried off when she spotted me because she knew I was going to jump her. I followed her out and she just vanished.



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27 Jul 2024, 10:50 am

You've just bragged online about causing a serious car accident.

That's on you. Nothing to do with childhood bullies.


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27 Jul 2024, 11:17 am

Despite the tailgating, your direct actions were to blame for the crash. If you had just pulled in without heavy braking then you would be innocent. Tailgating itself is a rather stupid thing to do.

I can recall two amusing accounts. One was in my youth when I had an amazing car that had such good engine braking that I locked the rear wheels! I was being tailgated by a lady and I changed down, let go of the clutch a bit sudden, the rear wheels locked and I heard her wheels screech as she braked behind. Not once did I apply the brakes while doing that! The car was an old Volvo 360GLT. She just avoided hitting my tow hitch but she stopped tailgating after that!

Another time with another Volvo but actually with the same engine, though a larger car (Volvo 940) and I had an elderly lady in tiny little car so close that all I could see was her face in my mirror of my car! I slwly tried tl reduce speed as I was coming into a 30mph speed limit, so though I was over 30 coming in as I dare not slow down any faster, I remembered about a pair of rather steep and brutal speed bumps. I could not slow down for them as she was so close so I let the old car with its lovely soft suspension hit them at 30mph, which the car took in its stride, but while looking in the mirror while going over the first, I saw her car hit that speedbump and then nosedived, and the sight that met my eyes I remember to this day! I didn't realize she was not wearing her seatbelt (Illegal in the UK) and due to her car suddenly hitting the ground, all I saw was her rather squashed face pressed against the front windscreen with both of her hands also on the screen either side as she had completely been thrown out of her seat and over the steering wheel! Every 30 or 40 mph speed limit area (Some are now 20) she was tailgating but every 50 or 60 mph area she would be staying around 45?
Not wanting more tailgating I pulled in and then gave it a few minutes and carried on.
About eight or ten miles ahead there was a dual carriageway where I was allowed 70mph, so not having much time as we had to get back, I took it up to 70, and saw a small queue of traffic ahead and overtook. As I overtook, at the front of the queue was that lady doing her 45mph, and when she saw me she gave me such a look! It wasn't my fault!. It was HER fault she didn't see that speedbump because she was driving too close! What was she blaming me for? :D



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27 Jul 2024, 12:09 pm

Mountain Goat wrote:
Despite the tailgating, your direct actions were to blame for the crash. If you had just pulled in without heavy braking then you would be innocent. Tailgating itself is a rather stupid thing to do.

Other driver can't prove I hit the brakes on purpose. I could always say I was trying to get away from the tailgater.



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27 Jul 2024, 12:10 pm

ChicagoLiz wrote:
You've just bragged online about causing a serious car accident.

That's on you. Nothing to do with childhood bullies.

Bet the other driver won't ever do that again. Now he has to buy another car. FAFO. He found out.

On my way home, I saw the other guy's car being towed away. He was on the phone with someone and was visibly upset. Hope he loses his job because he can't get to work. Now he knows how I felt when I was a child and always got the short end of the stick.



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27 Jul 2024, 2:25 pm

FrostBender wrote:
Mountain Goat wrote:
Despite the tailgating, your direct actions were to blame for the crash. If you had just pulled in without heavy braking then you would be innocent. Tailgating itself is a rather stupid thing to do.

Other driver can't prove I hit the brakes on purpose. I could always say I was trying to get away from the tailgater.

So...it's OK if you can get away with it?

Are you sure you're not NT?


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27 Jul 2024, 2:29 pm

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FrostBender wrote:
Mountain Goat wrote:
Despite the tailgating, your direct actions were to blame for the crash. If you had just pulled in without heavy braking then you would be innocent. Tailgating itself is a rather stupid thing to do.

Other driver can't prove I hit the brakes on purpose. I could always say I was trying to get away from the tailgater.

So...it's OK if you can get away with it?

Are you sure you're not NT?

Everything's legal if you never get caught. I did stop after it happened and called the police. I told the police the other driver was threatening me (he wasn't) and I had to get out the way (i didn't, just wanted him to crash). Driver got a citation for following too closely. So he's out of a car and has fines to pay. I played the victim and won.

Not NT. I was VERY visibility autistic when I was a child. I learned how to hide most of it.



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27 Jul 2024, 2:46 pm

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Everything's legal if you never get caught.
Including deliberately lying to a police officer about an auto accident?


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27 Jul 2024, 3:34 pm

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OP, you're going to have to find a forum other than WP on which to brag about causing a road traffic accident and lying about it to the police, to suit some personal vendetta against someone you've never met?

There's no point asking if you would have cared much if the driver or an innocent bystander were killed as a result of your little temper tantrum, and that makes it even worse.

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