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26 Oct 2024, 6:45 pm

I cried after getting something wrong at my job. Why am I like this. Nobody else around me cries like that! I'm nothing but a burden who bothers everyone else.



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27 Oct 2024, 4:42 am

think many people on WP have thought that same thing.....so many times and so often......think maybe Aspies on the average ( if there is a average).. After while people can get numb about the stuff they cannot help about themselves
Or each persons individuals details . Somethings just are . And that feeling you seem to have written about here .
Is a aspect of a more real human .And its not polite of me to write that with the extra neural connections in any individual Aspies head,Perhaps your just might have extra wiring in the emotional processing areas of your induvidual brain ...? :cry: :oops:


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27 Oct 2024, 5:23 am

It's something that happens. Sometimes we cry when we are feeling overwhelmed. It can happen to anyone, though some people are more sensitive and cry more easily. Try not to be so hard on yourself. It's probably not true that you are a burden or that you bother everyone. It's just how you feel.



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27 Oct 2024, 11:42 am

Like the above written about just how your feeling ,perhaps at that particular time of the day ....And not meant to discount feelings ,have seen my own hormonal dysregulation turn me into a blubbering hot mess. Very often till those got a little more regulated , but emotions are not something that a person thinks they might control .But you can affect your response to them alittle , And perhaps a doc , might do a test and see if somewhere inyour bodies systems .
And see if your chemistry in your body could be ????? outta of , what passes for normal ranges for a healthy woman .
As if there is anything that appears normal for a Aspie. ?... 8O


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