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04 May 2025, 11:37 am

Cambridge dictionary definition of spicy

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exciting and interesting, especially because of being shocking or dealing with sexual matters:


Is it OK to use the term ‘neurospicy’ when talking about autism and other neurodivergences?
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Language trends change quickly at the hands of social media users. They explode into our screens, rather than slowly evolve. This can change the ways we talk about diagnoses such as autism and concepts like neurodiversity.

But before we use a term, we should look at how it came to be and what it means to people.

So where does the new word “neurospicy” come from? And why do some people embrace it, while others reject it?

First, let’s unpack ‘neurodiversity’
The term neurodiversity evolved collectively in the mid-1990s in an online space dedicated to autistic people.

The term refers to the neurological diversity found across the human species. It is a way to include brains and minds that diverge from what society considers neurologically typical or “neurotypical”.

The terms neurodivergent and neurotypical are now well studied and well defined by academics and the neurodiversity movement. Outside of this, though, language can change meaning.

Why do some people favour the term ‘neurospicy’?
Words like neurodiverse, neuro-inclusive, neuro-affirming and neurospicy are neologisms (new words) related to neurodiversity.

These words don’t come from the original group in the 1990s or from medical professionals. They come from a large online community of neurodivergent people.

Neurospicy is a way of describing a person who experiences multiple forms of neurodivergence, or a collective, such as a family that has many neurodivergent members.

For some, the use of neurospicy avoids disclosure of a diagnosis.

Others feel it’s a creative way of pushing back against medical terms such as “mild autism”.

Blogger Randi Owsley writes:
Neurospicy embodies the richness, the zest, and the profound depth that characterise our unique neurological makeup. It’s a celebration of the vibrant, sometimes intense, facets of our identities.

Why do some people dislike it?
The use of neologisms like neurospicy is controversial inside and outside the neurodivergent community.

Some parent advocates feel that terms associated with neurodiversity erase the profound difficulties of autistic people.

Neurodivergent people have also had some strong reactions to the word neurospicy. Neurodivergent podcaster Danielle Sullivan asks if neurospicy is just a cute, quirky word or a way to avoid saying disabled.

Some argue we should abandon words such as neurospicy and “neurosparkly” and be clear that we’re talking about disability.

So it seems that some neurodivergent people and people who support the medical model of autism agree about refocusing on disability.

So is it OK to say neurospicy?
Before picking up a new language trend, consider the history and the power of words.

Moving forward, we can ask individuals and families how they refer to themselves and their diagnosis. We will find a variety of responses including neurospicy, autistic, disabled, neurodivergent, has autism or ADHD, or my disability doesn’t define me.

Asking about people’s preferences gives us an opportunity to provide an affirming environment for all, and a space to continue to explore this conversation.

To me the term spicy when used not literally meant what the Cambridge dictionary I quoted above said it meant. The term seemed to have fallen out of favor for good reason. In an era where very explicit content is available at the tap of your fingers “spicy” seems quaint.

I like to watch youtube videos where zoomers react to songs I grew up with. I have noted these reactors often use the term “spicy” when reacting to sexual songs. So it seems zoomers have brought back the older definition. So it is no surprise that zoomer autistics would adapt the term “neurospicy” to describe their neurodivergence in an affirming way.

In other words neurospicy is the new Aspie. People like it or do not like it for the same reasons.

When I was first diagnosed I identified as an Aspie for the same reasons described above. While I am neurodivergent I identify with the less broad term Autistic. That is my preference but I don't have any objections to Autistics using neurospicy.


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04 May 2025, 11:41 am

As long as people think that it's OK to call some people's ND "mild" it's going to be OK to use the term neurospicy. And really, there's enough language policing in general, we really don't need to add that burden to people that are already having to spend extra effort on communication.



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13 May 2025, 7:59 am

I Personally Hate The Term "Neurospicy." It's The Kind Of Crap Self-Diagnosed Peeps Who Are Trying To Be "qUiRky" Use SMH


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13 May 2025, 8:01 am

I could care less, the same way I could care less about meme culture.


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13 May 2025, 1:20 pm

Its a load of rubbish, like trying to turn something sexy or something


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13 May 2025, 4:38 pm

carlos55 wrote:
Its a load of rubbish, like trying to turn something sexy or something

The whole point of it is as a response to people claiming that people have it mild.

I do think it's kind of a dumb term and getting less and less meaningful over time.



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13 May 2025, 4:42 pm

Zombies have told me I am in fact neurospicy.


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