Would you jeprodise a good friendship for a relationship?

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Context: I'm asexual with bisexual feelings. I'm also a super romantic. I split with my boyfriend just last year.

I've been talking with a girl for a year now and I think we've established a good friendship. Recently she has been alurring to having something more than a friendship. She's my best friend who I connect on so many levels intellectualy, and I don't want to jeprodise our friendship over a pursuit at romance, even though part of me is curious about how things would go if we were together. My previous relationship ended bitter and not only did I lose a romantic partner, I also lost a friend ( my ex being both a lover and a friend)

What would you do in my shoes?

I'd at least consider it if I thought there was a chance they might be receptive.

I would def pursue a relationship if I thought she was interested in me. Me & my first girlfriend were best friends before she told me she liked me. She was the first person I connected with & related to. We broke up for various reasons. I wasn't friends first with my two other girlfriends but my current gf is my best friend & I feel I relate & connect with her better than anyone else including my first gf. I was also single for 8 years straight after my first relationship ended despite my best efforts to find another one & I was extremely desperate.

If I had romantic feelings for them and thought they might be interested, too, I think I’d likely go for it if I were you. It’s the sort of situation I prefer, actually.

I wasn't expecting such consensus.

Thanks for the feedback.
I'll have to test the waters and see how things go, I'm not confident in making the first move.

Yeah you must be nervous and it's also very exciting too

Best of luck to you