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Mikurotoro92
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07 Jun 2025, 3:33 pm

Getting married which caused me to neglect everything else!! !

According to Cathy

Honestly, she might be right...



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07 Jun 2025, 3:36 pm

Well it's good you've got someone in your life to set you straight every now and then

Good friends aren't easy to come by as you know


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07 Jun 2025, 5:17 pm

That doesn't seem that surprising, it seems like it became your primary special interest for awhile.


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07 Jun 2025, 8:31 pm

That's very understandable & common when relationships become very serious. It's good you realized your doing that but keep in mind that it may be diffcult to be there for everyone & it's impossible to please everyone all the time so prioritizing may be necessary.


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08 Jun 2025, 4:41 am

I feel the whole issue with my brother goes much deeper than just Autism...