Did I Just Find a Girl with Asperger's or ADHD in the wild?

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So this girl I met at a bbq kept looking at me and smiling. She also rubbed up against me, told me how she was an introvert and her little brother was really socially awkward, and just seemed super interested. She came out again a few days later and my friend said earlier she was weird but I did not pick up on that. She said she saw herself as weirder than everyone at the table and would bet on it. She looked at me and smiled but like she had pain in her eyes. Also I had overheard her and my friend talk about an abusive situation. Finally she said she likes to spend a lot on concerts. I invited her to my bbq and she said yes so we shall see. I just get the guy feeling she is neurodivergent.

She has chosen you.

If you like her then you won already, it's easy mode, just don't do anything stupid.

Please keep us posted on how this progresses.

Although I would caution about obsessing about whether she's on the spectrum. She is who she is and seems to think you're hot (I hope she wasn't drinking when this happened). A diagnosis of autism wouldn't have any relevance.

Yeah keep us updated

Sounds interesting

Good luck!