Dilemma and please bear with me.

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ok 16 years ago my Kids were 'taken into care by Social Services', (Not going into details on that). needless its mostly how i found out things about myself which lead to other stories(not relevant here), However they are both with my sister who is known to be manipulative and will say anything because she hates me.. leading to My eldest saying that if she ever saw me she would run away Not that i did anything but fight social services BS.. I haven't seen either in ewww 9 years now eldest is well into being a teen and the other isn't far behind. They don't talk, don't write, No Cards not even a thank you for Bday/Xmas cards every year just utter silence(mostly how I'm exiled from family), My Partner the Children's mother has given up and refuses to talk on the Subject or about them. Next year they are free from the Court Ruling, but the silence gives no indication of them wanting to know us and no indication they are coming home ever. I have no idea how to unpack I've tried again and again to email them via my sister which is going ignored. pretty sure they call her Mother(no proof). Do i just Move away and give up? i emailed them one last time recently but still silence.
Any Advice?
and no we don't even have a phone Number for them. Just complete Ghosting though we know where they are.