Thinking of hookup in this doomed world

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SailorsGuy12
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13 Dec 2025, 8:19 pm

Since society is burning down and collapsing regardless of who is in power (don't want this to become overly political), I am tired of not having any sexual activity and having no experience well into my 30s (had girlfriend in the past, but didn't have sex with her since she wanted to be married first), I am thinking of just getting a hookup or FWB to get it over with. I would prefer a girlfriend, though. Since there is no sexual activity or relationships in Heaven where I can make up for what I missed on in that area up there.


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14 Dec 2025, 4:50 am

FWBs are fine and there's no shame in them but they're no easier to obtain than a gf. You still need to woo them. And preferrebly already be friends imo so you have something to talk about. It's a lot like dating really minus the exclusivity.
It shouldn't be approached only as a last resort or less respectable (because that says something about the percieved respectability of the woman you hook up with) but something you do because you enjoy it and enjoy the company of the people.
And if you're hoping to get a gf out of said hookups then you might feel lonelier than if you never bothered, if it's not reciprocated. So keep that in mind too!


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14 Dec 2025, 1:03 pm

I understand these risks, I am just kind of tired of things now.


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14 Dec 2025, 3:24 pm

SailorsGuy12 wrote:
I am thinking of just getting a hookup or FWB to get it over with.


"Just"

That seems to trivialise a virtual impossibility.



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15 Dec 2025, 6:57 pm

So people only want to have sex so they won't be seen as freaks? Personally, I have no problem being a freak for the rest of my life, which won't be long the way the world is going. Who needs humans, anyway? Every time I hear "Humans are social by nature and bla bla bla" is just makes want to scream my lungs out.

Humans need to go extinct. Even if it doesn't bring back the dodo bird, which is extinct because of human greed and stupidity and destructive behavior that has existed since we learned to walk without dragging our knuckles on the ground.

Of course, the human dodos are the ones still alive today that can't learn how to live in simple coexistence.