chamoisee wrote:
There is another thread, a recent one, with the exact same title. In fact, I thought this was it until I opened it...confusing.
Anyway, I'd like to know: how do you think the parents who aborted the Down's babies would have parented them? Would those children have been loved and valued? Perhaps some of them would have been...parental instinct does that. What about the others? What scenario do you envision that would have been a better choice than abortion, because realistically, I don't know if it would be possible to find adoptive homes for them all. Mere physical survival is <b>not</b> adequate for any baby or child.
Who would make the choices for these babies if they had severe birth defects requiring extensive surgery? How would they live, who would love them?
These questions haven't been answered for the neurotypical population at large yet. Babies who are not autistic or Downs are being aborted because the mothers cannot afford to have them or the dad is a flake, or for a mulititde of other reasons. If a woman is forced to have a baby when her health can't handle it, who should be liable if she dies? If she can't work while she is pregnant and she's the sole breadwinner in her family, or even a necessary contributor, and you think there should be legislation saying, too bad, quit your job, have the kid and adopt it out, who will compensate the family for the loss of her job and wages?
In answer to the loss of earnings etc, i think people are more important than this me-me obsession in society today. Babies are lives not transactions. I dont want abortion banned altogether but it the laws are far too liberal right now. The way society is going there will probably be Abort-a-Baby drive-thrus in the not too distant future to make our live for the moment consumer society that little bit more convienent.
As far as how the people that wanted to abort them would parent them, i cant speak for everybody but my big brother and his girlfriend had the test to check for Downs and that caused a misscariage. I presume they were planning on abortion but as they already have one Downs child and really love him i think that would make it likely that they would care for the child they tried to abort if it was born.