kicken18 wrote:
I think I will be the contraversial one on this one, but I would say, it all depends on the situation. I mean put it this way, I've been with girls and slept with them pretty quickly, but we still had nice relationships together, it didn't really matter how quickly we slept together. At the end of the day, if you feel it's right, then why not, not harming anyway. Ok ok, the whole feeling thing can be difficult for us aspies, but, it will either happen or not if you both want it to.
I take the view on, it doesn't matter if it's "appriopriate" or not, I am not anyone else but me, I mean f**k knows how my gf puts up with my boring convo, other people might lable that "inapropriate"...Just see what happens, there is no right or wrong answer unfortunatly, which makes this difficult for us lot ay?
what kicken says.
if we are actually talking about sex:
if i like the date a lot (ie enough to consider them as a potential bf) i will likely not have many qualms about sleeping with them 1st or 2nd date. don't see why there should be any moral judgement here - i'd just be expressing the kind of person i am once in a relationship anyway - ie sex is an important feature (another facet of communication), and not something that should be measured out like a bargaining tool.