Congratulation on 21 years. To make a marriage last that long takes a committment and hard, hard work. Good for you for getting counciling.
Have you selected a anniversary gift for your wife? Something like 21 carnations or roses. Twentyone dollars in gift certificates to a movie house so the two of you can go on a date. Twentyone homemade coupons for backrubs, nights out, dishes washed, toilets cleaned etc?
BeeBee
I sent her 21 reversed (as in 12) longstem red roses yesterday. Saturday night we'll go on a date; we have a baby sitter for the kiddo.