She told me the other day its over, and she's moving out. She doesn't blame me for her being unhappy, she blames it on other things like money, being too far from her friends and family, all of that stuff. I knew it was coming, I did my best to make her happy but she became more and more depressed. Finally she realized things had to change, so she's moving back home. I can't help but think that I'm letting the only girl who has ever loved me as much as I loved her walk out on me. But if she believes she can find happiness again this way, then I have to let her go.
I've always had a delayed reaction when it comes to things like this. Every time someone has died I find myself unaffected by the news for several days, I watch all the group hugs, the tears, and shrug as people ask me why I'm not crying. Then just when I start to think I'm inhuman it catches up to me, and I collapse and sob. I can't describe how good it feels to just let it all out like that.
For some reason this time it just wont come... It was 3 or 4 days before I finally cried, we're still living together until she's all moved out, and yesterday we went to grab some groceries. While we were there I started to realize that soon I'd be shopping all alone... Soon I'd be doing everything alone. And it scared the crap out of me. Once my tears started to drip down my face, she began to cry too.
Since then, it's been on and off... The slightest little thing will set me off, but its only ever a few tears -- not the big break down I need. I'd do anything to just curl up into a little ball and sob like I did when I was 3. I don't get why I can't just let it all out, I'm all alone -- no one will hear me cry. But yet something still inhibits me, something inside me just wont let go...