What is the AS trait you have that people find sexy?

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Alot of people,for some strange reason,think that my "naivity"(sp?) is cute.


-SpaceCase

This is a sort of roundabout result of being aspie but I smile a lot when I'm around people and b/c I have really big dimples they like me more/ think I'm really cute. I dunno I do it b/c of alway being nervous in groups of people and thats b/c I have AS but yeah it's indirect but one begets the other.


But to be totally honest I don't even know why so many girls think I'm cute I don't really understand why they think it I'm always hearing from people saying how the new person I met said I was cute after I left the room, I don't think I'm ugly but I don't think I'm particularly attractive either it's weird what people think sometimes *shrugs*

I don't know if this is really an aspie trait but I have had some girls tell me I gave a hypnotizing gaze when I look them in the eyes.

I don't know.

Same thing here pretty much. It didn't use to happen much since I was bad at eye-contact and looked away from people, but since I forced myself to look people in the eyes its like what you said. A bit awkward at first since I wasn't used to people looking me in the eyes and keeping their gaze there.

same here, also, my peculiar sense of humor

Apparently, I look innocent, and that is seen as attractive (kinda scary, imo).

Also, I think like a guy and act like a guy even though I look like a girl. Some men find that attractive; others find it unattractive.

Women love a man with a sense of humour. My sense of humour is one my most valued traits. I think it's inherited from my Dad's side, cause all the men in the Jansen clan are funny guys. No kidding.

I don't know if this has anything to do with my being on the spectrum, but I think it does. Guys have told me I think more like a guy, and they find this very attractive. Guys say I "get" them. I do. Women tend to have a lot more complicated social structures, innuendos, hidden meanings, etc., and I find it all exhausting and pointless.

People tell me I like to be mysterious.
I just don't like talking about myself.

I don't know for sure but maybe coming off as nice and sometimes naive. I don't know if those are good or exactly bad traits. Some guys make me feel like a child or that I need help but I've also had guys tell me how pleasant I am to be around which to me is a compliment. As an aspie myself, it's been hard to really understand anyone's cues unless they're completely blunt. So I can't exactly tell if someone likes me or is just being polite.

Guys say I'm a nice person and I look quite mature.

Guys say I'm cute and my literalness is even cuter. Same with naivety but this was back in my late teens.

I really like people that are different and have more character. I've never met anyone in real life with AS

My innocence, and the way I don't play the typical girlfriend mind games.

Last edited by AngelUndercover on 15 Apr 2008, 6:04 am, edited 1 time in total.

I've been told that my mad genius streak is apparently somewhat attractive, but my overweight status and certain common AS drawbacks overrule that (in other words, I still haven't gotten into a relationsihp yet)