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"One of the slightly frightening things about the explosion of Asperger's diagnoses is that because Asperger's syndrome refers to a hard-wired neurological state, kids are essentially being told that they are hard-wired to be nerds. It's a really fraught diagnosis. I wonder if there are kids who would've benefited from just being able to think of themselves as nerdy, and then gone on to become something else, instead of being told when they're young, "You have Asperger's syndrome, you're always going to be a socially awkward systemic thinker."
Kids with AS aren't being told that they are hard-wired to be nerds. At least, they shouldn't be. Saying that all people with Aspergers fit into the 'nerd' category is a vast generalisation.
Kids with AS could be kept in the dark, and not told about their diagnosis. But I know that I, for one, would have much preferred to have had my diagnosis at age 6 than at 18. Kids with AS can't just become something they're not - they will never be very popular, they'll never have a huge group of friends, they'll never read body language and nonverbal cues very well, and there's a chance they might always be socially awkward. But I feel it would be cruel to tell them otherwise.
Of course, they could always be told about the benefits of AS but we can't have that, can we? Certain organisations would pop a vein if they found out that Autism can actually (gasp) be portrayed in a
positive light.
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