Both groups you mention are not only economically depressed but economically depressed due to the direct unthinkable actions of white males, historically. The enslavement, in the United States, of African Americans and the subsequent decades of institutionalized and legalized separatism (Rosa Parks, after all, only died yesterday) along with the lack of any legal status for women at all through the 19th century (Women don't receive national suffrage until 1920, fifty-three years after black males had full national voting rights. In the 19th century, married women in the United States possessed no property of their own and had no real legal protection from the abuses of their spouses.) leaves a legacy that, along with continuing stereotyping and discrimination, requires a wall of protection and support.
Why are there special schools for people on the autism spectrum? There aren't special schools for NTs. The former group needs, in many instances, the protection and support that is provided. The latter gorup does not.
I know that it is difficult, sometimes, for us to put ourselves in someone else's place, but try to view the history of the matter as an historical truth and try to understand that it is not that long ago and its effects extend, unfairly handicapping millions of innocent people, to the current day.
You know the old joke? Why is there a Mothers' Day and a Fathers' Day, but no Children's Day? Answer: Every day is Children's Day.
While some individuals may not be in great shape (some children, after all, are abused), White Males are already the advantaged class.
And I say all this as a white male, and hardly a "bleeding heart liberal."