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15 Dec 2008, 2:09 pm

Ever met someone that fit what you are looking for so well that he/she fit everything you look for, and things you didn't know you were looking for? I have, and I don't think I want to tell her that yet.



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15 Dec 2008, 2:11 pm

Padium wrote:
Ever met someone that fit what you are looking for so well that he/she fit everything you look for, and things you didn't know you were looking for?

Yes, and I'm now married to her!

Padium wrote:
I have, and I don't think I want to tell her that yet.

Better tell her before someone else does, and she forgets all about you.


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15 Dec 2008, 2:17 pm

Yap, and, like Fnord, married her!

Don't tell her too late....otherwise it could well be the biggest mistake you could possibly make (but neither too early... tricky thing that is).

Wasn't much of a help I guess :roll:



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15 Dec 2008, 2:29 pm

Well, she is aware of my interest in her, I just haven't told her how much she fits my "ideal woman" description.



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15 Dec 2008, 2:29 pm

Hey, congratulations Fnord & Soaring, on getting the perfect girl!

And Padium, I agree with the consensus - don't let her get away, but the timing is important. Does she seem to like being with you? Is she even available at this time, or is she still with somebody you think she's breaking up with?

I thank God I'm not a guy and I don't have to figure this stuff out, but good luck to you. If she's the one I hope you get her!


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15 Dec 2008, 2:32 pm

KaliMa wrote:
And Padium, I agree with the consensus - don't let her get away, but the timing is important. Does she seem to like being with you? Is she even available at this time, or is she still with somebody you think she's breaking up with?


She is single, and from what I'm hearing from her, has never been in a relationship.



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15 Dec 2008, 2:34 pm

I have, but i didnt tell her that flat out
the first thing i did, i didnt know and it
just unfolded as time passed. If i had said
"omg you`re just everything i want!!" i think
she would have given me a funny look
and kept a little distance, i know i would,
it would have been a little weird. But if
you know her well and thinks she like
you too, theres nothing wrong with
saying it i guess.



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15 Dec 2008, 2:36 pm

ImTheGuyThatDidThat wrote:
I have, but i didnt tell her that flat out
the first thing i did, it just unfolded as
time passed. If i had said "omg you`re
just everything i want!!" i think she would
have given me a funny look and kept a
little distance, it would have been a little
weird.


Yeah, thats why I haven't said anything about that yet.



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15 Dec 2008, 2:44 pm

I`m kinda thinking, if you dont know her well,
then theres no way to know if you like
everything about her....i usually get to
know them before i know if i like them.
If someone did it to me, i would feel a
little weird and i would think "well...how
is that possible, this person dont know me.."



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15 Dec 2008, 8:56 pm

Well, I've talked to her, and neither one of us are actually ready for a relationship, or have ever had one, but we are at least talking with each other know, and a relationship is a future possibility. For now though, we are still getting to know each other a bit better. I guess you could call that a start....



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16 Dec 2008, 9:39 am

Padium wrote:
Ever met someone that fit what you are looking for so well that he/she fit everything you look for, and things you didn't know you were looking for? I have, and I don't think I want to tell her that yet.

Yes... And he'd already been an acquaintance/casual friend for two years by the time I realized it. He makes my brain feel funny in a good way.

A few months later, I've made some progress. So far he's not scared off. In fact, I'm 99% certain he likes me as more than a friend too.



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16 Dec 2008, 2:35 pm

Fnord wrote:
Padium wrote:
Ever met someone that fit what you are looking for so well that he/she fit everything you look for, and things you didn't know you were looking for?

Yes, and I'm now married to her!

Padium wrote:
I have, and I don't think I want to tell her that yet.

Better tell her before someone else does, and she forgets all about you.


QFT. I'm engaged to the woman who not only was everything I could have imagined, but redefined what I wanted and desired; we were friends for eight years before we finally came together, despite being attracted to each other throughout that span. Give it space, but don't be afraid to express yourself in small ways. When you find the right one, everything is different.


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16 Dec 2008, 3:42 pm

That perfect someone = my mind :)



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16 Dec 2008, 3:48 pm

Fintan29 wrote:
That perfect someone = my mind :)


Yes my mind is perfect, cept that I want more, I want someone else, and my mind alone doesn't cut it.



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17 Dec 2008, 7:55 am

A perfect someone would be a godsend.

I'd have to (nearly) "bare all" about myself on a dating site and hope someone comes along who STILL likes me for the way I am.