I would like to post a pitcure of my daughter

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27 Dec 2008, 1:40 pm

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I don't understand the point of this thread. What exactly are you asking?-- it's your decision if you would like to post a picture of your daughter. Some do, some do not. An announcement of your decision isn't needed.


Not true. I have really appreciated the advice.



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28 Dec 2008, 7:03 am

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Thats correct - However what she puts up here will be here forever. IN 100 years, in 1000 years .. for the rest of our civalisation. Everything we put up is being capture openly (on sites like waybackmachine) and all goverment caches.

Strange. I was under the impression hard drives had an average 3-7 year life span.

And before they break, people move files to new drives.


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28 Dec 2008, 7:05 am

I have a picture of my boys on my profile - I blurred it so it is more anonamous (spelling? :lol: )



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28 Dec 2008, 8:09 am

BellaDonna,

NO OFFENSE, but I doubt your daughter is SO pretty that a paedophile(sp?) would go to another state/country to molest her, etc.... I am certainly no paedophile, but I can tell you that I have seen some VERY pretty girls and I wouldn't do that. Gee, wouldn't they get distracted?

You DO have me curious though.

BTW do you REALLY think a paedophile will come HERE to find kids?



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28 Dec 2008, 8:28 am

A paedophile will visit any site. There have already been people who have admitted being one on here, I think they eventually got banned (it is difficult to know whether they were just trolling). You can't prevent what somebody does in private with you public information. If that is a problem to you don’t post it.

You are you child’s protector. Security starts at home. So it is far more important that you know where your children are. There is no reason why shouldn't post a picture of you child’s head, unless they have features so unique that are already on som sort of public register that would be easy to cross refrence.

Al Qaeda uses with plain backgrounds or where there is no horizon only the immediate terrain no less than a couple of metres away, and pretty indistinct.

You don't even have to go to those lengths. If it is a very young baby as pretty as they may be they kind of look the same anyway. Even older it would be difficult to indentify them with a picture alone. You can also PM people the photo, but that doesn’t mean you can verify their identify either.

Re-read the terms. If you post a photo in the public domain it is public forever (or until it is lost). That doesn't have to be the end of the world.



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28 Dec 2008, 8:33 am

Greyhound wrote:
cliche wrote:
Jol wrote:
Zak,

Thats correct - However what she puts up here will be here forever. IN 100 years, in 1000 years .. for the rest of our civalisation. Everything we put up is being capture openly (on sites like waybackmachine) and all goverment caches.

Strange. I was under the impression hard drives had an average 3-7 year life span.

And before they break, people move files to new drives.


Actually, it may not last forever. But LET'S BE SERIOUS! Does she, or her daughter, care about even 15 years down the road? And a paedophile wouldn't know what to look for, etc... 5-10 years later.

You ARE getting to be rather ridiculous.

OK, let's tell the truth. READY!?!?!? OK! MOST countries are hooked up to the internet, or soon will be. MANY countries have, or soon will have, cameras EVERYWHERE! MANY have the cameras on the internet! The result? You daughters picture may ALREADY be on the internet. Her entire history may be. What about the school she went to? Do they have a photoalbum? Does THAT company have an internet site?



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28 Dec 2008, 8:45 am

I think some don't realise a person such as a police investigator will find someone from public information.

There will need to find as many bits of information about that person from as many independent sources a possible.

Then they will cross reference the information eliminating anything that doesn't fit. Cross referencing can be very powerful. It is many time faster than search only a single particular characteristic. Why do think they ask for you name plus date of birth or post code when quickly looking up your records? Cross referencing things that are different (other than being connected with person) produce more positive identifications.

Like 2ukenkerl said it is very unlikely that a pedo will go to such lengths to fine one pretty girl when there are others.

I have heard that they are very persistent but not on one potential victim unless they have already managed to groom them or have gained access in some way.



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28 Dec 2008, 12:02 pm

Why are you talking about paedophilia? It's not like she's going to post a picture of her daughter naked or something. I would hope the mods have SOMETHING to say about that.


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28 Dec 2008, 12:08 pm

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Why are you talking about paedophilia? It's not like she's going to post a picture of her daughter naked or something. I would hope the mods have SOMETHING to say about that.

Did you read the OP?



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28 Dec 2008, 2:31 pm

0_equals_true wrote:
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Why are you talking about paedophilia? It's not like she's going to post a picture of her daughter naked or something. I would hope the mods have SOMETHING to say about that.

Did you read the OP?


Still, she has a point. Everyone here takes SOME kind of risk. Just being on the internet creates a risk. You have to draw the line SOMEPLACE. Worry about everything, and you are DEAD! SERIOUSLY!



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28 Dec 2008, 6:40 pm

2ukenkerl wrote:
0_equals_true wrote:
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Why are you talking about paedophilia? It's not like she's going to post a picture of her daughter naked or something. I would hope the mods have SOMETHING to say about that.

Did you read the OP?


Still, she has a point. Everyone here takes SOME kind of risk. Just being on the internet creates a risk. You have to draw the line SOMEPLACE. Worry about everything, and you are DEAD! SERIOUSLY!

I said that in my post. She asked why we were talking about pedo? it is because the question was about pedos. If the question wasn't about pedos we wouldn't be talking about them. I'm not really sure what mod intervention is needed.



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28 Dec 2008, 11:57 pm

I was commenting on the end of the thread, and the beginning. Paedophiles find children sexually attractive.. and so they are going to want those children naked, or at least promiscuous (apologies for the bluntness). Unless she's going to post a picture of her daughter looking sexy, she has nothing to worry about. Think about the number of newspaper photos of kids in school plays and the like, all the way from the start of photos.

What I mean by mod intervention is that I'm sure they would have something to say about a member posting a promiscuous picture of their child on this website.


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29 Dec 2008, 12:03 am

Its the internet. Anyone who wants to score some kiddy porn can easily find it without coming anywhere near this site or the pictures upon it. If we are all to start panicking about criminals seeing our stuff on the net, then nobody would ever post anything. Its surprising how many people are not child molesters in the world today.


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29 Dec 2008, 5:49 pm

I don't know I am just paranoid of posting anything of my identity or photo. Let alone posting pics of my own child. I don't understand the internet like other people. I don't know how people scam or why they even bother unless they are have got some thing to gain. Like evil paedophiles and other internet criminals. I don't know nothing of how to be one so I don't know what is safe or not.



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30 Dec 2008, 4:08 am

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~Anyway. I'm not sure what exactly it is that you fear, but if it's the thought of undesired consequences, such as the possibility of a person falling over heels for her (what the chances of that happening, eh?) then I don't think that there's much I can say on the matter. Though personally I think you're overly paranoid and that you should relax. If, however, you fear that it'll be used for other purposes, such a masturbation material (in which case there will be no harm, but I guess your concern as a parent can be understood). Then, well, there might be a reason for you to be worried. For all you know it might end up being posted in some place like anonib (or something like that), or 12chan. Thus, if you fear this specific reason, I would advise you to avoid posting them altogether.

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30 Dec 2008, 6:34 am

But who is to say that pedophiles would even be interested in your daughter???