themonkey wrote:
appears normal like everyone else, normal child? Looks in the eys, have normal bodylanguage, normal voice etc.? Just have social dificulties? Maybe doesn't fit in well?
What do you mean by this? To me, a child who has social difficulties and doesn't fit in with the other kids is not "normal like everyone else." What makes the child not fit in?
My child's eye contact is inconsistent, so sometimes I could say he looks people in the eyes - but not as often as other kids do. His body language is usually typical, but again, not always. And, as his mother, I am so familiar with him, I am really not in a good position to evaluate how typical his body language is! His voice is "normal," although at times he has some issues with modulation.
Is there another question behind this question? Are you trying to figure out whether your child has Asperger's? Are you trying to get reassurance that your child doesn't have Asperger's? If it's something like that, you really do need an evaluation by a qualified expert. Your two-line assessment is really not enough information for anyone to give you any solid information about your situation. As Nan said, there are many things that could be going on besides Asperger's. On the other hand, you may be overlooking diagnostically important details, that only a proper evaluation with a qualified expert would uncover.