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mysterious_misfit
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19 Jan 2009, 12:35 am

A nice, single, good-looking Aspergian man just appear in my life? *sigh*

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19 Jan 2009, 12:38 am

You probably won't know it when he does. Good looking guys typically don't just walk up and say "Hi, I got AS. Nice to meet you". How about just a nice, cute, single guy? That'll increase your odds a bit.

As for the waiting game, it's no fun :cry:

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19 Jan 2009, 12:42 am

mysterious_misfit wrote:

A nice, single, good-looking Aspergian man just appear in my life? *sigh*

I can give you all 4 of those except for "good-looking"...

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19 Jan 2009, 12:44 am

There was a cute guy I met and I'm pretty sure he is Aspie, and I pined for him for a while, and tried flirting a little, but then he took off his gloves and he was wearing a wedding ring. It was depressing.

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19 Jan 2009, 12:46 am

A/S/L ?

Sorry, I've wanted to say that ever since AOL 3.0.

mysterious_misfit
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19 Jan 2009, 12:55 am

ToadOfSteel wrote:

mysterious_misfit wrote:

A nice, single, good-looking Aspergian man just appear in my life? *sigh*

I can give you all 4 of those except for "good-looking"...

I'm sure you're good looking to at least someone, it's all a matter of opinion. I don't care for pretty-boys anyway.

mysterious_misfit
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19 Jan 2009, 12:56 am

Nim wrote:

A/S/L ?

Sorry, I've wanted to say that ever since AOL 3.0.

I'm clueless....

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19 Jan 2009, 12:59 am

A/S/L was an AOL chat room thing, long time ago. It means Age / Sex / Location.

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19 Jan 2009, 1:12 am

Rynok wrote:

A/S/L was an AOL chat room thing, long time ago. It means Age / Sex / Location.

27/F/WI

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19 Jan 2009, 1:14 am

mysterious_misfit wrote:

ToadOfSteel wrote:

mysterious_misfit wrote:

A nice, single, good-looking Aspergian man just appear in my life? *sigh*

I can give you all 4 of those except for "good-looking"...

I'm sure you're good looking to at least someone, it's all a matter of opinion. I don't care for pretty-boys anyway.

When you're 100 lbs overweight (and a compulsive overeater to boot), you don't look good to anybody...

Well actually, I take that back... the fact that the term "fat fetish" exists means that there has to be someone...

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19 Jan 2009, 1:17 am

mysterious_misfit wrote:

A nice, single, good-looking Aspergian man just appear in my life? *sigh*

I thought there was a queue of guys here looking...

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19 Jan 2009, 1:24 am

Kangoogle wrote:

mysterious_misfit wrote:

A nice, single, good-looking Aspergian man just appear in my life? *sigh*

I thought there was a queue of guys here looking...

I'm imagining the line at the DMV right now (mvd, dmv, etc).

mysterious_misfit
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19 Jan 2009, 1:27 am

Kangoogle wrote:

mysterious_misfit wrote:

A nice, single, good-looking Aspergian man just appear in my life? *sigh*

I thought there was a queue of guys here looking...

So why aren't they HERE? *points to empty spot next to me on my couch* LOL

Seriously though, it's hard to meet anyone when you don't like going to bars. Even NT single mothers have a hard time finding any time to socialize.

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19 Jan 2009, 1:33 am

As myself I can safely say the answer to your question is - its way too troublesome to bother. And the aspie males that are searching are going to be way to unstable to actually hold down a dignified relationship. What you really want to search for isnt the aspie male but a calm and quiet guy who doesnt care for bars. Which in some cases may be myself since you sound like me in your answers - but then again I'm far from nice, barely get along with girls and don't really care....

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19 Jan 2009, 1:38 am

mysterious_misfit wrote:

Kangoogle wrote:

mysterious_misfit wrote:

A nice, single, good-looking Aspergian man just appear in my life? *sigh*

I thought there was a queue of guys here looking...

If you started a thread saying "Aspie girl wants Aspie guy" then you would get a lot of replies me reckons. Though no guarantee that they would be all nice and good looking.

I actually quite enjoy bars tbh, being drunk makes NT's ok to deal with. Though there are plenty of other places you can meet people...

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19 Jan 2009, 1:38 am

Nim wrote:

Kangoogle wrote:

mysterious_misfit wrote:

A nice, single, good-looking Aspergian man just appear in my life? *sigh*

I thought there was a queue of guys here looking...

I'm imagining the line at the DMV right now (mvd, dmv, etc).

:laugh:

I am lucky in that I can pull NT's reasonably easily I guess...

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