My daughter thinks I abuse her

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My DD was.. oh I can't say. It is nothing to do with me, it's what my boyfriend did once. I always wondered if it bordered on abuse or not.

Then why post that at all, if you know people will be curious. Also, I thought you said you had an 11 year old? But your profile says you are only 23. I feel an interesting story waiting to be told...

It isn't an interested story. It upsets me and yes I shouldn't have posted it.

I thought I might have had a supportive response - I doubt that. It is something I kind of want to share because I never have had.

It might explain a few things if it was the case, but I don't know if you will ever know. Better to let go of the speculation and focus on building a positive relationship with her. If you can do that, she may open up enough to you someday for you to know, and help her resolve the harm from it.

And I am sorry - very sorry - for all the difficult things I know you have been through.

You need to allow yourself to heal. Take care of yourself, OK?

You need to QUIT HARRASSING ME. You attack me in post after post to the point you single me out intentionally. I have never attacked you as a person 0 Equals True so I don't know what your problem is. You can disagree with my posts all you want but do not personally attack me because I have never attacked you.

I did not say this girl had DID. There are 4 kinds of Dissociative disorders, plus people can Dissociate when they have other disorders, PTSD being one of those. And no I didn't say she had PTSD either. I said phasing out is a sign of dissociating and dissociating is often related to child abuse this according to my psychologist. There is no such think ag "phasing out" that's a sugar coated word that doesn't exist. If someone loses touch with reality it is Dissociation. Its obvious the child is disturbed thus why I suggested counseling as an expert needs to get to the bottom of this. And its also evident the mother is disturbed or maybe has Aspergers herself because normal people do no repeatedly touch someone else in a way that the other person says makes them feel pain or discomfort. When you touch someone and they tell you to stop but you keep doing it then you are violating the person's body and their rights. Something is WRONG if you keep touching people even after they tell you to STOP. Both of them need counseling.

Actually I merely quoted your posts, to explain why it is you are posting generalisations. It is possibly something that you don't realise.

You should consider the impact of what you say, those can be like personal attacks.

I have not harassed you. I have no contact with you other the threads I am already posting in and have something to say on. I have only responded to your inflammatory comments on the odd occasion. Where is post after post? I posted the last one. You would have to go back a long, long time, when you singled out RB, since the previous comment on you. There isn't really a lot more to say on the matter other than that.

When you attack me personally just because you don't agree with me that is harrassment. When you repost my post within other threads that is also harrassment and has nothing to do with this thread. I wonder if its not also against WP rules to repost someone's post in another thread without their permission?

If you hate me and disagree with me that's fine. But do not drag me through the coals just so you can look all macho or whatever it is you are trying to do. I have not posted anything personal against you so I suggest you LEAVE ME ALONE! Let me also remind you this post is not about me its about a woman accused of abusing her daughter and her asking for advice and comments. I'm not the mother in question nor the child.

Ticker,

Luckily, neither my daughter, nor I are *disturbed*. If we were, you posts would certainly not have been helpful and might have even been damaging. People come here looking for help, guidance, assistance and friendship. Many of those people are in vulnerable positions. It is very important to ask yourself if your comment will help the person who has already admitted they are in need. If it is not helpful, it may very well be harmful and is best left unsaid. Like I said above, neither of us are disturbed so no harm has been done. I did not take the post(s) personal, I just assumed you were having a bad day.

0_equals_true & Gromit,

I did appreciate your posts. Thank you.