I have been thinking lately of how women who are isolated are probably easier for us Aspies to strike up relatonships with. Stating the obvious really. Especially since Aspies are typically isolated themselves when it comes to women.
I no longer seek to contact women over the Internet. In the days when I did, there were telling patterns. Apart from the undoubted problems that women I was able to strike up relationships with had with obesity, mental health and sexual identity, I'd like to think geographically, there were geographical patterns.
They were all from extremely small, extremely remote towns in conservative areas of the US (south, and some of the midwest). In other words, they all came from BFE.
Typical states for this included Texas, Mississippi, the Carolinas and Indiana. But other than remote areas, what Americans might call BFE, for some reason I also seemed to be able to connect with females in Houston. This may be because it's a particularly dispersed city = more isolation I guess.
But that's all in another continent from me, and I don't know how to translate this pattern to here in the UK or even Scotland. America is laid out so big and there are far fewer places here that are remote enough. Or conservative enough (this caused more isolation for people if they were adjudged as different). But I just wanted to give some ideas on where one would find women who are isolated enough, to be easier to strike up relationships, seeing as how I tended to find such people over the Internet in certain areas.
16 Mar 2009, 6:46 pm
But I'm a sceptic at the same time.
