I noticed alot of inappropriate laughter in this thread!! (that's another thread)
I don't see what's out of line. I'm a "new kid" too. I don't think there's anything wrong with bringing out a grievance on a p.m. or a thread. I think we should be open and honest here. I have felt snubbed many a time on this site, but, hey, I'm so used to it! If we were all face to face though, I would have split a long time ago!
P.S. I think "forum ettiquette" is poo poo.