toasterboy wrote:
I am FTM, and have been to social/support type groups for other FTM's and all the other guys seem like any other NT at an NT gathering. I will be there not knowing what to say, bored, anxious, disconnected, and feeling very out of place.
Sort of MtF. I say "sort of" becaue I tend to prefer Kate Bornstein's more flexible approach to gender.
Gender Outlaw is a great book if you haven't encountered it yet.
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I have never been around other AS people to my knowledge. Is it easier to "connect", or be around each other versus NT's?
I don't find so. On a superficial level, yes, there's a certain connection because of shared experiences and mindset; but aside from that, I don't find that I get along any better with other Aspies than I do with NTs in the long term. It's like we're all aliens on a planet of humans, but most of us are from different worlds.