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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Audio processing lag and recognizing people |
| loobyloukitty |
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Posted: 12 Nov 2017, 3:19 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 441
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| This is why I have subtitles on the television. |
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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: Dad Doesn't Love Me |
| loobyloukitty |
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Posted: 12 Nov 2017, 3:14 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 740
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| It sounds like their channelling their struggles out on you. It's a difficult situation, but try not to take it to heart. I'm sure they do love you. If you try to be a little more understanding of them, they should return the understanding to you. If you say, you have another sibling with autism, I ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Anyone else stim by grinding/clanking teeth? |
| loobyloukitty |
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Posted: 10 Nov 2017, 3:49 pm
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Replies: 25
Views: 962
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| My bf says I do it in my sleep. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Asperger's: First Sexual Experience |
| loobyloukitty |
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Posted: 08 Nov 2017, 7:06 am
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Replies: 14
Views: 196
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| Got fingered when I was 10. If your worried. I'd message him and say your feeling anxious about it. Its best to be honest so you can protect yourself from people taking advantage of you and being immature. Alot of people, look down on others for their limited sexual experience. What matters, is you ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Can you outgrow autism? |
| loobyloukitty |
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Posted: 07 Nov 2017, 3:18 pm
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Replies: 28
Views: 1,350
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| No BS... Only thing that might be better is meltdowns. I am able to hold them in or delay them but thats about it. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Someone does terrible at their job. |
| loobyloukitty |
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Posted: 07 Nov 2017, 2:56 pm
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Replies: 2
Views: 708
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| It's difficult. I feel this all the time which is why I have to work on my own and can't work with others as it causes arguments. But I have learnt, there is a huge difference to our expectations of ourselves and others and the actual employers expectations. I would try and take yourself away from t... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Dreaming About Having Meltdowns |
| loobyloukitty |
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Posted: 07 Nov 2017, 7:44 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,619
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| I had an epic meltdown in a nightmare last night where I dreamt everyone was against me and deliberately winding me up to proof how incapable I am. My family were in on it and my work colleagues and social services. In it, my line manager tried to make me work with this work colleague who frustrates... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Just blew the PIP assessment :( |
| loobyloukitty |
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Posted: 06 Nov 2017, 4:56 pm
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Replies: 40
Views: 2,291
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| I'm not going to make any judgements about these conditions as I don't know anything about them. Only vaguely read about PDA the other week. I'm curious- are you still waiting for the decision? I honestly suspect it won't be long. I think you should get something. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Frustration / High anxiety |
| loobyloukitty |
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Posted: 06 Nov 2017, 4:35 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 500
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| Yes I managed to just about get through. I feel like I should look for a new job but struggling to do much at the moment as I can't focus my mind because of my financial situation. I will talk to HR tomorrow and see what he says about it. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Got my PIP face to face assessment next week :( |
| loobyloukitty |
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Posted: 06 Nov 2017, 4:00 pm
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Replies: 44
Views: 1,914
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| I got 0 points too. I totally underexggarated my issues and took no one with me and as far their concerned because they didn't see physically evidence of it- 'I can do this activity independently'. This is far from the truth, I have to support at work on a daily basis to reassure me , otherwise I ha... |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Did you attend a bad school? |
| loobyloukitty |
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Posted: 06 Nov 2017, 3:15 pm
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Replies: 21
Views: 2,146
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| Been to 4 schools. Two primary, 1 secondary for 6 months and the fourth school was a special school for girls with communication problems (autism etc). Third school was awful. Was severely bullied and was excluded because the school utterly did the most sickening safeguarding. Fourth school was grea... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Frustration / High anxiety |
| loobyloukitty |
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Posted: 06 Nov 2017, 3:05 pm
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Replies: 3
Views: 500
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| Really stressful anxious day... got to work and was told to do something entirely different. ,My mind got all muddled and confused and she asked me to a make a decision and I struggled to make a decision. Then I spent half of my shift, walking around... wishing it was all over soon and feeling physi... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Any Social Aspies? |
| loobyloukitty |
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Posted: 05 Nov 2017, 6:00 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 922
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| I do like socialising to a certain extent but I find it quite tiring and laborious. I prefer to socialise with people who are less frustrating than others who have commonalities to myself. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Porn/masturbation addiction |
| loobyloukitty |
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Posted: 05 Nov 2017, 3:53 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 187
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| What do you class as an addiction? Is it like 3 times a day? I masturbate nearly every day and I am an aspi woman. I am in a relationship but I have to say. I prefer solo activity. If its taking over your life and more than twice a day, I would class it as a problem even for a male. There has been s... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Oh, that's why I do that thing |
| loobyloukitty |
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Posted: 05 Nov 2017, 3:42 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 572
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| I find it crazy that people seem to think its ok to go home when they have been there all morning and claim they're ill? or stay at home when there dog has died, her reasoning for staying at home- was to bury the dog? i still can't understand why she couldn't have waited until later. i went to colle... |
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Forum: Adolescent Autism Forum Topic: Playing with yourself |
| loobyloukitty |
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Posted: 05 Nov 2017, 11:16 am
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Replies: 40
Views: 6,909
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| Yep I got caught masturbating at high school. Got spread around the school. The teacher saw me. I'm not too sure what it was all about to be honest. It may have been stimming to begin with but then it turned into this whole attention seeking thing. It was very confusing as I didn't know what I was d... |
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