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 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Is this girl at work interested in me ?

Posted: 21 Nov 2020, 8:29 pm 

Replies: 28
Views: 3,986

She's definitely into you. Ask her out, but be casual about it. No groveling, no "confessions", no clinginess.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: its impossible to get a girlfriend

Posted: 21 Nov 2020, 8:16 pm 

Replies: 92
Views: 7,792

It's certainly a challenge, yes. But don't make the same mistake I did and throw your future away to wallow in self-pity. If you focus on self-improvement, getting out of your comfort zone, and meeting people, you have a chance. Otherwise it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy and you'll spend the re...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Vile Tinder Man still a hit with the ladies

Posted: 04 Oct 2020, 8:12 am 

Replies: 127
Views: 5,157

I looked him up. He's really attractive. Why are we still surprised that hot people can get away with sh***y personalities? Can you explain why I knew plenty of guys in the military who were in relationships with dumpster fire women? Can you explain what a dumpster fire woman is? Based on personal e...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: What is your biggest regret in life?

Posted: 20 Sep 2020, 2:04 am 

Replies: 30
Views: 455

I met a girl who could have turned my life around. She tried so hard to get my attention but because of my insecurities I gave her the cold shoulder and later thoroughly burned bridges with her. On top of that she was in a bad place emotionally due to her dying father on top of her own loneliness an...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Leaving a Stable Job to Pursue a Better Career?

Posted: 20 Sep 2020, 1:01 am 

Replies: 9
Views: 442

I relate to much of what you've said. I too am working a stable low-paid working-class dead-end job with very minimal social prospects (basically everyone else at my work is a middle-aged man), and I also wish to break into a more white-collar industry. I also am more of a nerd than a hands-on sort...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Past missed oppurtunities

Posted: 19 Sep 2020, 8:14 am 

Replies: 26
Views: 862

I had many opportunities. Opportunities I was too mentally f****d to realize. I used to be quite the social buttefly when I was feeling comfortable - very theatrical and fun. The girls who noticed that took a liking to me and I wish I'd understood that at the time. I fueled my own insecurities furth...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Do you consider yourself physically attractive?

Posted: 19 Sep 2020, 8:05 am 

Replies: 249
Views: 14,954

I'm just average. I used to think I was really ugly because I was perpetually single, but I realized later my issues were mental.

I imagine with some effort at the gym I could make myself decently attractive. Though I'd have to be incredibly attractive to make up for all my other problems, lol.

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Leaving a Stable Job to Pursue a Better Career?

Posted: 19 Sep 2020, 7:45 am 

Replies: 9
Views: 442

Keep the stable job as your bill paying job, outside of that look for other things to do like buying and selling or something else. A smart way to do it is get a bill paying job you don't have to do anything in like a security guard position and from this you can do other work or manage your own bu...

 Forum: Work and finding a Job   Topic: Leaving a Stable Job to Pursue a Better Career?

Posted: 27 Aug 2020, 4:31 pm 

Replies: 9
Views: 442

Now under normal circumstances this would be a no-brainer, but things don't always work the same way for us. Right now I'm working as a gardener at a retirement village. I mostly work by myself but do chat with the residents here and there. They have pretty low standards for being impressed - as a y...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: suicide

 Post subject: Re: suicide
Posted: 10 Aug 2020, 5:43 am 

Replies: 34
Views: 1,022

Sometimes your life is just too damaged to fix and you have nothing left to look forwards to. It's especially painful when you look back at your life and see all the opportunities you squandered. Knowing its our own damn fault we ended up this way is the hardest part. For some of us release is all w...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Interaction with a couple at the library

Posted: 18 Feb 2020, 7:40 am 

Replies: 60
Views: 2,753

General rule of thumb with people, especially customers, is to talk about them, make them feel special, and share positive feelings.

 Forum: News and Current Events   Topic: "OK Boomer" may become a Fox TV show

Posted: 24 Nov 2019, 12:39 am 

Replies: 90
Views: 1,440

Boomers don't seem to understand how f****d the economy is for us millennials. Moving out of home costs a fortune since house prices are absurdly high. Most entry-level white-collar jobs require a degree nowadays, as employers don't want to train people any more. With more and more "unskilled&q...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Should I ignore advice like this?

Posted: 15 Nov 2019, 2:45 am 

Replies: 6
Views: 383

Red Pill works for attractive, charismatic men on shallow, brain-dead women, for the purposes of one-night-stands and short flings. It'll most likely get you absolutely nowhere.

The real purpose of Red Pill is for some as*holes to sell sh***y books to impressionable men.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Friendship vs. romance?

 Post subject: Re: Friendship vs. romance?
Posted: 05 Nov 2019, 7:22 pm 

Replies: 65
Views: 1,958

In my experience, every time I've started off friends with a woman that I've later developed feelings for, she's not reciprocated. Trying to find a partner through friendship first is extremely inefficient and likely to just lead to unrequited feelings. You're better off making romantic intentions k...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Changed my profile infor and lied and results are as expecte

Posted: 05 Nov 2019, 5:53 pm 

Replies: 252
Views: 4,993

Okay, Sly. Have it your way then. I can't help a guy who doesn't want to be be helped.

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: Changed my profile infor and lied and results are as expecte

Posted: 05 Nov 2019, 6:06 am 

Replies: 252
Views: 4,993

I don't know what to say to you, Sly. Every possible path you can take you find a road-block to put in front of. The life you have right now isn't working for you, but you have to make sacrifices to move forwards. If you've been able to hold down a job that most people rage-quit after a few months t...
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