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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Continue or abandon marriage and parenting goal? |
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Posted: 24 Jul 2026, 10:06 am
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| Here you go WP!! ! Read it & weep... EDIT: I remember David telling me something very disturbing and strange in the last months of his life that might have foreshadowed all of this He said: "If anything were to happen to me, would you be willing to date other men?" As if he himself kn... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Abandoning Marriage and Parenting goals PERMANENTLY!! ! |
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Posted: 04 Jul 2026, 5:20 am
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Replies: 26
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Fnord wrote: My front, too.[/color]
But what about your side?
And for the time being, I would tread cautiously with getting married OP, for the near future at least |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Abandoning Marriage and Parenting goals PERMANENTLY!! ! |
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Posted: 02 Jul 2026, 5:10 pm
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Fnord wrote: SabbraCadabra wrote: If you never get married, you never have to go through divorce... Well, marriage IS the single most leading cause of ALL divorces, right? Besides, marriages end in only one of two ways: Divorce or Death. None of this bodes well for the "Happy Ever After" myth.
Ah you're back |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Continue or abandon marriage and parenting goal? |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2026, 10:00 am
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| If i was you, i would take a step away from marriage and parenting and focus entirely on yourself and setting achievable goals that'll set you on the path to independance. Becoming a parent in particular requires independence that I think you haven't quite reached yet. Sorting out your own financial... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Is it right to blame people for having kids later? |
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Posted: 13 Jan 2026, 5:12 am
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In most cases no unless they left kids until the 11th hour purely for the sake of it.
Its one thing I don't like, mainly because of increased risk and complications, particularly for the child. |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Profit is theft. |
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Posted: 24 Dec 2025, 10:37 am
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Replies: 46
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Profit is what allows buisness to grow to te size needed to employ large numbers if people.
Without profit, you would be spinning yarn in a mud hut you made with dung and straw. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The astronaut lover scam |
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Posted: 23 Dec 2025, 8:48 am
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Replies: 3
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| man that lady was so gullible. I dont know anyone would fall for that but sure enough there is at least one person who did. Generally, the only people who fall for stuff like this is people with such insane standards that their ideal partner, quite literally, doesn't exist. You just have to laugh a... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Neighbors and our landlords REFUSE to help us out!! ! Why? |
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Posted: 22 Dec 2025, 1:34 pm
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Replies: 57
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| Getting married AND learning how to drive will result in the elimination of Cathy though!! ! That's the point of all of this! However, I do agree about starting from the bottom towards independance although...isn't marriage the exact OPPOSITE of independance? If I start from the bottom and work my ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Neighbors and our landlords REFUSE to help us out!! ! Why? |
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Posted: 22 Dec 2025, 6:21 am
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| Are you able to do this without any help whatsoever though? Well...maybe not BUT David's sister would help us negotiate the terms with the apartment complex I think? As elgee said, though most people would find your level of support stifling, perhaps it was deemed necessary? It seems to me that as ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Neighbors and our landlords REFUSE to help us out!! ! Why? |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2025, 12:52 pm
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| As for the apartment complex we were going to move to before Cathy changed her mind, that can still happen once I get married and we would just have to restart the application process!! ! She CANNOT interfere at that point! Are you dependant on Cathy to sort the application out though? Only when I ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Neighbors and our landlords REFUSE to help us out!! ! Why? |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2025, 8:58 am
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Mikurotoro92 wrote: As for the apartment complex we were going to move to before Cathy changed her mind, that can still happen once I get married and we would just have to restart the application process!! !
She CANNOT interfere at that point!
Are you dependant on Cathy to sort the application out though? |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Neighbors and our landlords REFUSE to help us out!! ! Why? |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2025, 7:10 pm
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Replies: 57
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| Cathy is my worker who helps me run errands like grocery shopping and doctor's appointments It would appear that she has succeeded in replacing my mom since my mom had to move to a rest home so she was effectively taken "out of the picture" I know Cathy and her organization are a safety n... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Neighbors and our landlords REFUSE to help us out!! ! Why? |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2025, 5:43 pm
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| That is correct Cathy while she means well and has her heart in the right place has at the same time somehow unknowingly imprisoned me by creating all of these restrictions!! ! She thinks that the apartment complex we were going to move to wouldn't work for me because they have a LOT of barking dog... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Neighbors and our landlords REFUSE to help us out!! ! Why? |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2025, 4:50 pm
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| Yeah, it sucks to have no freedom to go to places when you have no driver's license. Especially in this backwards country where we solely rely on vehicles for transportation. Not to mention lack of passenger trains or Jeepneys as alternatives to transportation. In my case, I have been trapped at a ... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: The progressive paradox |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2025, 4:33 pm
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| Problem is, the Nordic model is underpinned with vast oil wealth which allows them to have all that while having lackluster productivity. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: No idea how to date & no experience, any advice would be gre |
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Posted: 20 Dec 2025, 4:29 pm
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Replies: 27
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| I have to find somebody exactly like myself or just give up? What in God's name kind of advice is that that's like the worst advice you could ever give somebody It sounds pretty stupid but generally, any massive mismatch only causes problems later on. As Grand said, women who are doing well for the... |
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