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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A crush messaged all of sudden at late night. |
| CannibalCorpse |
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Posted: 16 May 2019, 8:24 am
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Replies: 18
Views: 1,475
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| Go slow, Boo. Unless she also regards you as a crush, you likely feel more attracted to her than she does to you ... I mean your feelings about her are more intense, since you already view her as a crush. But it does sound like this could be a good thing. Try to ignore the jaded advice such as &quo... |
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Forum: News and Current Events Topic: Planet has until 2030 to stem catastrophic climate change |
| CannibalCorpse |
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Posted: 02 Nov 2018, 11:15 am
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Replies: 117
Views: 2,988
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| I should have stayed away from this thread. Now I've spent more than two hours checking all the flood maps and interactive simulations of sea level rising to find countries that would still be safe. It would be nice to know if this is really going to happen this soon because then I rather invest in ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I think most people are idiots |
| CannibalCorpse |
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Posted: 31 Oct 2018, 4:43 pm
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Replies: 9
Views: 450
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| Hurtloam, yes, my bad, I misread the articles but I don’t know anyone with an anaphylactic response to a food substance that would consider eating an off the shelf sandwiches or cakes etc. All the people I know are obsessive about checking really carefully and most take food they’ve prepared themsel... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I think most people are idiots |
| CannibalCorpse |
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Posted: 30 Oct 2018, 11:22 am
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Replies: 9
Views: 450
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| It did make me feel better. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I think most people are idiots |
| CannibalCorpse |
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Posted: 30 Oct 2018, 10:59 am
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Replies: 9
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| I wasn't always like this, it's just getting worse and worse. The more time I spend in the UK the more I hate people in general. It feels like the general IQ is getting lower and lower. For example, I work in a guesthouse, I finish at 1pm the latest, after that it's my discretion if I wait for the g... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Dating someone with BPD |
| CannibalCorpse |
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Posted: 09 Oct 2018, 1:20 am
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Replies: 23
Views: 1,014
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| BPD is a spectrum disorder too in my opinion. Not everyone will self-harm themselves, not everyone will spend money without limits, not everyone will have risky sex with strangers. I would say proceed with caution and learn what triggers her issues but don't give it up just because of a label. Peopl... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Taking responsibility? |
| CannibalCorpse |
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Posted: 04 Oct 2018, 8:06 am
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Replies: 21
Views: 701
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| Having Asperger is not your fault nor you chose it but what you make out of your circumstances, how you respond to obstacles are YOUR responsibility whether you like it or not. You are responsible to make choices for example blaming everything or feeling sorry for yourself(nothing wrong with it but ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Women, what attracts you to a man? |
| CannibalCorpse |
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Posted: 29 Sep 2018, 9:57 am
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Replies: 286
Views: 6,406
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| This is going to be my personal preference but at first sight I am attracted to blue eyes and blond hair, preferably long. If he is on the alternative side, like band tshirts, tattoos and beard I am melting. But this doesn't mean that I only look for a guy who looks like that. My last man was shorte... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Any other autistics who love change? |
| CannibalCorpse |
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Posted: 21 Sep 2018, 3:08 pm
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Replies: 31
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| I constantly seek new experiences, try new things, travel a lot, I keep changing jobs as I get bored easily. For me I think it's more like sensory underload. I can't eat the same thing every day, I can't do the same thing every day. But as others pointed out it's okay when I change things. When some... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: RE: Excuses |
| CannibalCorpse |
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Posted: 17 Sep 2018, 4:35 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 475
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| This is totally normal behaviour for NTs too. The novelty wore off, he got you, no need to put more effort in it. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Your Worst Job. |
| CannibalCorpse |
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Posted: 01 Sep 2018, 2:49 pm
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Replies: 42
Views: 2,616
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| I was 18, needed a summer job between schools and this factory was about 15 minutes walk from my house. I only knew they worked with meat stuff. Hmm well when I was called in to a trial day I realised what they were really doing. Washing pork guts inside and outside for sausages. You can't image how... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A cool man’s advice regarding ghosting |
| CannibalCorpse |
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Posted: 29 Aug 2018, 5:02 pm
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Replies: 31
Views: 2,675
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| I am so fed up of this "ghosting" thing. I reserve the right to decide who I talk to and to whom do not. I don't owe an explanation to anyone, I do not need to give "closure" to anyone. We met 1, 2, 5 times... we are practically strangers and I learnt the rules. If somebody disa... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Spiteful remark! |
| CannibalCorpse |
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Posted: 29 Aug 2018, 4:49 pm
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Replies: 31
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| I agree with Domineekee. This was nothing. It would have been spiteful if she says why are you talking to that old/creepy/odd etc (insert anything) dude? This sounds like you are being a bit too sensitive as you have no idea what she meant and it doesn't matter anyway. "Studies of first impress... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Valid fast food complaint. |
| CannibalCorpse |
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Posted: 29 Aug 2018, 10:21 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 444
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| I don't want to underestimate and invalidate your feelings I just want to show you the the other side of this. I had worked for 8 years behind the counter in sandwich bars, coffee shops and canteens. It is a high pressure environment, most of the places expected me to serve 2 customers a minute, som... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why did she stop replying to me? |
| CannibalCorpse |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2018, 8:57 am
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Replies: 19
Views: 1,328
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| Sometimes messages get lost. It happened to me a lot of times. Phones playing up, internet connection etc Send her another message to makes sure. If she doesn't reply to that, well she got bored or found somebody else. I don't believe in "I'm busy" excuse as writing a message is about 20 s... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A cool man’s advice regarding ghosting |
| CannibalCorpse |
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Posted: 27 Aug 2018, 2:15 am
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Replies: 31
Views: 2,675
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| That is kind of implied in a way. If you call somebody a ghoster that's because you want an explanation. There's a difference between "He or she ghosted me." or "He or she didn't reply to my texts." First is a hurt snowflake, the second is somebody who can handle that sometimes p... |
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