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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Worldwide Aspergian single List 2.0(Straight) |
| Sorenzo |
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Posted: 03 Nov 2014, 11:48 am
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| Heya Name: Emil Gender: Male Location: Holstebro, Denmark Age: Mid-twenties Occupation: I work in IT, having decided that being a lab technician, though interesting, isn't for me. Religion: Christian, Buddhist, atheistic. One might say syncretist. I'm an attractive, muscular guy who's slightly on th... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I can't deal with the arrogance and bigotry here anymore... |
| Sorenzo |
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Posted: 03 Nov 2014, 4:06 am
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Replies: 32 Views: 4,159
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| I want to reassure everyone that no one's a burden on society. There's a modern economic consensus among academics that consumption is vitally important to an economy. In fact, in the current economy, with unemployment being high and consumption low, every dollar you get without taking up space in t... |
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: What is your general opinion of humanity? |
| Sorenzo |
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Posted: 03 Nov 2014, 3:46 am
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Replies: 33 Views: 3,720
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| It's funny how everyone seems united in their dislike for neurotypicals. It's almost... lemming-like? Hey, I get it. The world sucks. But you're not making it any better by fostering enmity. That said, I've never had close friends who didn't also have problems. I can't relate to "humans", either. Bu... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Does this mean I'm asexual? |
| Sorenzo |
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Posted: 02 Nov 2014, 4:00 pm
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Replies: 5 Views: 1,688
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| I think Calstar is right. You don't have to feel pressured into defining yourself. Maybe you'll meet someone and fall in love with them. Maybe they'll be male, or female. Maybe they'll be asexuals, or at least not mind if you are. Try to define yourself by positives - what you do think and feel and ... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Do you think being gay matters? |
| Sorenzo |
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Posted: 02 Nov 2014, 3:53 pm
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Replies: 14 Views: 3,536
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| I think being gay does matter. Now, I totally agree with you that you should have the option of not being treated differently than anyone else if you don't want to. But I think being gay does matter. It affects your life, and your life matters. A lot of stuff matters. Love, one might say, matters mo... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Why are so many Aspies asexual or genderqueer? |
| Sorenzo |
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Posted: 02 Nov 2014, 3:42 pm
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Replies: 26 Views: 13,060
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| I don't know much of the science on this issue, but it seems pretty straightforward to me. Sexuality is, in any sense of the word, a complex thing. Socially, physiologically, biochemically, genetically. Anything that meddles significantly with any aspect of sexuality seems destined to affect it. My ... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: A really really really embarrassing subject |
| Sorenzo |
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Posted: 02 Nov 2014, 3:27 pm
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Replies: 23 Views: 5,240
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| Generally, farting is a result of two things: Diet and gastric bateriae. If you find yourself suddenly farting more, and your diet hasn't changed, it could be some kind of stomach germ. You might have eaten food that had started to go bad, or which contained certain bacteriae to begin with. If micro... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: I'm not a Whore...Per se |
| Sorenzo |
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Posted: 02 Nov 2014, 3:07 pm
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Replies: 25 Views: 5,784
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| (Note: I am respectfully posting as a man in this forum.. I hope it's okay.) I want to reiterate what has been said previously. There is no reason to call oneself, or anyone else, a whore. Frankly, a lot of different people have a lot of different sets of moral guidelines. There is no one set of rul... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I think my mind is broken |
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Posted: 02 Nov 2014, 2:12 pm
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| Hey all My mind feels like a minefield. The way I've been coping with depression is to shut out things that remind me to think depressive thoughts. I've gotten so good at it, I'm frankly developing some kind of split personality disorder. I'll cheerfully regale any audience about just how quirky and... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Trying to understand dating. Is this the basic guideline? |
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Posted: 02 Nov 2014, 1:14 pm
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Replies: 15 Views: 2,989
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| People who say they have to ask their wives for permission to buy stuff, for instance, are usually joking. And that's assuming the couple - married or not - share a bank account. If they don't, there's no reason for asking permission. In other words, I don't think you should take it so seriously. As... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Why do people think that life is a race? |
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Posted: 02 Nov 2014, 1:05 pm
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Replies: 12 Views: 1,686
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Methinks successful people need some way to justify their having wasted a lot of time on nonsense, and thus crave superiority status.
Same reason people get surferdudeophobia. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Any other Aspie asexuals out there? |
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Posted: 02 Nov 2014, 11:10 am
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Replies: 11 Views: 3,663
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| I'm sort of borderline asexual. I'd love to find an asexual girlfriend. Just... For the record... In case anyone's out there. ;) Seriously, though, I don't think I'll feel complete unless I find a partner. I very rarely have the urge to have sex with another person. I'm sort of worried about dating ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Chosen abstinence, can't stop thinking about women. |
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Posted: 02 Nov 2014, 10:34 am
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| My advice: If you're capable of getting dates and relationships, you should do it. Now, it's great to focus on your health, and I'm not saying you should make dating your first priority. But if you miss opportunities now, you're going to regret it later, either metaphorically or literally. I don't m... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: dating sites are fraud period |
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Posted: 02 Nov 2014, 10:26 am
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Replies: 39 Views: 5,928
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| Dating sites advertise themselves as being able to solve the problems of people who are lonely. A lot of people who are lonely have really serious problems, though. Now, some sites are literally fraudulent. There are a lot of scams out there. Some sites are essentially romanticised social networking... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: So I'm at this bar |
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Posted: 02 Nov 2014, 10:19 am
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Replies: 3 Views: 1,078
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| Thanks for the input. I should really know better... I always start crushing on cute girls the moment I see them, and I should probably handle that - by asking her out or by leaving the party - before I start losing my mind. Now that another day has gone by, I'm glad the whole thing happened. I thin... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: evolved people don't procreate |
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Posted: 02 Nov 2014, 10:05 am
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Replies: 62 Views: 8,377
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| I think it's really not very healthy or helpful to think of people as unevolved, regardless of what your other perceptions of them are. A lot of extremely intelligent people procreate. Stereotypes aside, the main demographic issues that determine birth rates are access and adoption of birth control ... |
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