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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Man I met on the Dating Site |
| ChicagoLiz |
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Posted: 08 Sep 2025, 5:49 pm
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Replies: 29
Views: 1,009
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Do you use the same avatar in your dating apps as you do here?
Try using something more generic. |
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Forum: Computers, Math, Science, and Technology Topic: Science Videos |
| ChicagoLiz |
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Posted: 07 Jul 2025, 4:24 pm
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Replies: 21
Views: 2,314
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: I have a question for women 40 and over |
| ChicagoLiz |
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Posted: 06 Jul 2025, 3:45 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 31,273
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TwilightPrincess wrote: ^ Wow, that must’ve been a horrible thing to go through. Sorry you experienced it. Congrats for being in remission.
I do need to schedule a mammogram. I’m guilty of putting it off, but I think your PSA will give me motivation to follow through.
Thank you...and I'm glad I can serve as a warning! |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Recent Setbacks for Women/Women’s Rights |
| ChicagoLiz |
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Posted: 04 Jul 2025, 3:40 pm
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Replies: 21
Views: 39,483
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| I’ve been dealing with a lot in my personal life offline lately, like being confronted with past trauma in ways that I totally did not expect. I’m getting through it, though. I'm sorry to hear you're going through that, although pleased to know you have the tools to help yourself get through it, to... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Was this rude or not in your opinion? |
| ChicagoLiz |
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Posted: 03 Jul 2025, 2:15 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,782
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| Going to BBQ tonight at 7. There is this one guy in my social group I don't always get along with. I texted him earlier saying I am going to BBQ later on and he texted me back saying "Waa you invited?" My dad saw the text message from.him and he said "What an a**hole saying that to y... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: Recent Setbacks for Women/Women’s Rights |
| ChicagoLiz |
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Posted: 03 Jul 2025, 2:00 pm
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Replies: 21
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| I agree with everything that's been said so far. How do we support each other in this mess? Some of us have IRL autistic communities, so we can support other women and get support ourselves that way, but for those who get most of their support online, what can we do, or do better, to provide support... |
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Forum: Women's Discussion Topic: I have a question for women 40 and over |
| ChicagoLiz |
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Posted: 03 Jul 2025, 1:54 pm
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Replies: 12
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| The most painful mammogram I ever had was so bad that the technician asked if she should ease up a bit. No, I told her, I know I have dense breasts and this pain is necessary, so do what you have to do. She found Stage III cancer. Took about 11 years of various treatments, starting with multiple sur... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How old do people think I am? |
| ChicagoLiz |
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Posted: 02 Jul 2025, 5:16 pm
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Replies: 42
Views: 9,768
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| You're moving the goalposts, likely because you can't address what I actually said. I specifically said essential for their well-being for a reason. I don't believe not getting laid will kill someone, but it sure seems to dramatically lower quality of life for some people. That lowered quality of l... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How old do people think I am? |
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Posted: 01 Jul 2025, 6:05 pm
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Replies: 42
Views: 9,768
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| I suspect a lot of people who aren't ace might have some skepticism of that claim, primarily because sex is essential for their well-being. Is there any verified example of someone who died due to not having sex? Ever? How can you be so sure that something is "essential for your well-being&quo... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How old do people think I am? |
| ChicagoLiz |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2025, 4:44 pm
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Replies: 42
Views: 9,768
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| It seems that younger generations are starting to figure out that the extreme hype about sex that has permeated our media for a few decades now has been a mistake, and they're choosing to enjoy their lives without concentrating on "oh, I must have sex" all the time. This is more normal for... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: How old do people think I am? |
| ChicagoLiz |
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Posted: 23 Jun 2025, 3:35 pm
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Replies: 42
Views: 9,768
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You're asking all the wrong questions if what you want is a relationship.
If you're looking to hook up for a few hours, that'll be based only on looks and immediate 'chemistry' and therefore cannot be determined on a website. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I Found Someone |
| ChicagoLiz |
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Posted: 20 Jun 2025, 5:19 pm
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Replies: 67
Views: 16,089
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Kitty4670 wrote: Can you guys please STOP IT? He is real.
Then explain your post from a couple of pages back:
Kitty4670 wrote: I'm searching on catfish.com |
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Forum: School and College Life Topic: Shower Shoes and Sensory Issues- Help Please! |
| ChicagoLiz |
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Posted: 18 Jun 2025, 12:24 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 6,084
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Forum: Politics, Philosophy, and Religion Topic: Autism and the radicalization of young men online |
| ChicagoLiz |
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Posted: 11 Jun 2025, 4:42 pm
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Replies: 12
Views: 1,372
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| Boys used to grow up knowing that they would be in charge when they became men. That women were desperate to get married because it was the only allowable social option, so young men knew they would find someone who would be financially and socially dependent on them. They would get work through fam... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why won't people just admit it? |
| ChicagoLiz |
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Posted: 04 Jun 2025, 5:13 pm
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Replies: 62
Views: 13,805
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| Some chronically single whiners do complain about no one being interested in them & they'll let it slip that they've rejected others for superficial reasons like not being pretty enough or not earning enough. I do agree that it's very important to have some standards in a potential partner but ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why won't people just admit it? |
| ChicagoLiz |
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Posted: 03 Jun 2025, 4:20 pm
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Replies: 62
Views: 13,805
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Or, it's indicating that no one kind/decent/loving/supportive has shown interest.
Not wanting to date an abusive person is not the same thing as whining. |
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