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 Forum: The Haven   Topic: My attempts to join in failed

YoungMars
Posted: 13 Aug 2026, 10:18 pm 

Replies: 2
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Sorry to hear you were unsuccessful. How did you go about trying to join in at this goth lounge? Perhaps we might be able to brainstorm some better ways? I would attend as much as I could and would spend a lot of money buying drinks (Mostly non-alcoholic) while also wearing the rivethead or cyber-g...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: My attempts to join in failed

YoungMars
Posted: 04 Aug 2026, 9:06 pm 

Replies: 2
Views: 378
I thought I had finally found a “tribe” to join at the lounge in my area that was set up to cater to the gothic subculture but I was only met with disappointment once again. I just can’t find a “tribe” no matter what I do. Meet Up groups and other avenues I‘ve given chances at haven’t been successfu...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Wishing to join the gothic/rivethead subcultures

YoungMars
Posted: 21 Feb 2026, 5:58 pm 

Replies: 2
Views: 1,390
I have made some attempts to socialize with people at the hangouts I know of. Sometimes I get a conversation or two. I did get a phone number and an online means of contact at different times with two different people but one of the women moved away shortly after I met her and the other ghosted me s...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: Wishing to join the gothic/rivethead subcultures

YoungMars
Posted: 20 Feb 2026, 3:34 pm 

Replies: 2
Views: 1,390
I have been making attempts to join the gothic/rivethead subcultures but so far, I haven’t made any new friends in it. Besides only one person I kept in contact with after high school, I don’t have any friends who are goths or rivetheads. I have been buying the clothing for the subcultures when I ha...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: 37 years old and never had a girlfriend.

YoungMars
Posted: 15 Feb 2026, 2:11 pm 

Replies: 8
Views: 3,999
Don't beat yourself up about not having a girlfriend at 37, lots of NT and ND men alike have issues with attracting the opposite sex. The dating market in 2026 is brutal. That all being said I don't think it's a lost cause, if you want to date then date. You never know until you try. CFL I recently...

 Forum: Love and Dating   Topic: 37 years old and never had a girlfriend.

YoungMars
Posted: 14 Feb 2026, 11:45 pm 

Replies: 8
Views: 3,999
As the topic title says, I am 37 years old and I’ve never had a girlfriend. I just don’t have any confidence in socializing and I was constantly socially isolated growing up. It also doesn’t help that I have some embarrassing health problems. I also only recently figured out that I actually enjoy we...

 Forum: The Haven   Topic: I hate being a non-drinker

YoungMars
Posted: 14 Feb 2026, 10:45 pm 

Replies: 14
Views: 1,616
I am the same. I am hypersensitive to how alcohol tastes and my older brother used to terrorize me when he got drunk so I don’t have positive impressions of alcohol. It’s made me the odd person out in terms of socialization.
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