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Forum: The Haven Topic: How to cope with fear of abandonment? |
| NINfan |
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Posted: 02 Aug 2025, 11:32 am
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| I found out that my ex boyfriend - who is also my best friend - has started a new relationship. He hasn't told me but I found out online, by connecting the dots. We usually spend an afternoon a week in each other's company and this is still great, but he's not staying over to eat at mine now once we... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Any Nine Inch Nails fans here? |
| NINfan |
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Posted: 02 Aug 2025, 11:16 am
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Replies: 23
Views: 2,558
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Coilette_91 wrote: I used to listen to The Downward Spiral a lot, and a couple of older stuff. I don't listen to them so much now, but I still like them.
Yes, it seems that a lot of people think that way, indeed. I do like seeing a mixed age crowd at NIN's gigs. It's not just an older crowd. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Why so upset after someone cancels plans last minute? |
| NINfan |
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Posted: 02 Aug 2025, 11:12 am
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This friend has been back in touch already but we've not gone anywhere.
I got used to perceive situations from the other person's perspective too much and am now focusing more on how situations make me feel. It's a difficult one to figure out and needs time to develop into a new skill. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Why so upset after someone cancels plans last minute? |
| NINfan |
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Posted: 02 Aug 2025, 11:10 am
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timf wrote: Shattered expectations (especially sudden) can produce frustration. Once I started having a plan B, it was not so much of a bother.
That's a very good idea: to have a plan B ready. I hadn't thought of doing that and will do that for next time. Thank you! |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Why so upset after someone cancels plans last minute? |
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Posted: 02 Aug 2025, 11:07 am
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| I'd say that's actually pretty normal? Most people get upset when people cancel at the last minute, especially without a really really good reason. It's just a generally rude thing to do to somebody. It's only less rude than just standing somebody up. Additionally, a last minute cancellation withou... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Why so upset after someone cancels plans last minute? |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2025, 5:40 am
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| Hi, The plan for today was to go out with a friend but she cancelled exactly a minute before she and I were supposed to leave. (she had just woken up). Why do I feel so lost and tearful? I know that I crave predictability, and the opposite happens when someone cancels plans, but why the strong emoti... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Random thing you hate for no particular reason |
| NINfan |
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Posted: 25 Jul 2025, 6:11 am
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Replies: 47
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| I dislike cartoons that have been drawn in a - in my opinion - ugly way, like Family Guy or the Simpsons. I cannot watch either, no matter how good they are according to others. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post a blatant lie |
| NINfan |
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Posted: 25 Jul 2025, 6:06 am
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Replies: 19,795
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| Trees are just people who told too many lies. The amount of branches and twigs they contain tells you exactly how many lies they told before action was taken to turn them into trees. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Interview the person below you |
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Posted: 25 Jul 2025, 6:03 am
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Replies: 68,056
Views: 2,328,425
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Cortisol levels, personally.
Why is God in the radio? |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Any Nine Inch Nails fans here? |
| NINfan |
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Posted: 25 Jul 2025, 5:57 am
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Replies: 23
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| I think it's good, but not great. To my understanding, it's being made for a movie soundtrack - and the results of that can be hit or miss sometimes. Something just felt missing. Again, good, but not great. Same here: it's good but it hasn't blown me away. Yes, it's made for Tron but it's also offi... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Bump when horny |
| NINfan |
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Posted: 23 Jul 2025, 12:33 pm
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Replies: 3,972
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post a blatant lie |
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Posted: 21 Jul 2025, 8:52 am
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Replies: 19,795
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| Pasta in reverse spells: wodfyexc |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post a blatant lie |
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Posted: 21 Jul 2025, 6:05 am
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Replies: 19,795
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Forum: The Haven Topic: until december |
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Posted: 21 Jul 2025, 6:01 am
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Replies: 5
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derek_b wrote:
if i cant work on it there's nothing for me in this place
I get you. I could say that at least you have one thing to live for, but that won't be very helpful, I know. Do feel free to send me a DM if you want to talk a bit more private. I do get you. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post a blatant lie |
| NINfan |
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Posted: 19 Jul 2025, 1:33 pm
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Replies: 19,795
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| Stick insects designed the Mayan temples. Then giant tapirs built them. The Mayans rewarded them with a life time's worth of free Netflix. |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Post a blatant lie |
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Posted: 19 Jul 2025, 1:32 pm
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Replies: 19,795
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| Stick insects designed the Mayan temples. Then giant tapirs built them. The Mayans rewarded them with a life time's worth of free Netflix. But neither stick insects nor giant tapirs had televisions. |
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