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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Asexual in a hypersexual world |
| FLBear |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2018, 1:21 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 62
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So true!
Most people try to find love and compassion thru sex, when the best sex comes from love and compassion of a special someone.
My preference is to keep things uncomplicated and fly solo. If a problem does come up, that too can be handled. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Are all men terrible in bed? |
| FLBear |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2018, 1:14 pm
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Replies: 79
Views: 1,035
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| Yes, after 60 years on this planet, all men are terrible in bed, but so are women. This coming from an old man. The two of you need to communicate (talk) what you need so your partner can give you the right combo that works for you. And yes, this can work even on a one nighter. However it works bett... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: New members welcome! Introduce yourself here. |
| FLBear |
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Posted: 02 Jun 2018, 12:49 pm
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Replies: 881
Views: 18,700
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| Hello Everyone, FLBear here. My current and recent diagnoses include ASD, PTSD, and (with medication) Anhedonia. I'm a 60 year old guy who was Autistic when Autistic wasn't cool, borrowing from an old country song. Back in the late 50's and early 60's, autism was practically unknown by the everyday ... |
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Forum: Off the Wall: Forum Games, Quizzes, Roleplaying, etc. Topic: What Is Your Myers-Brigs Personality Type? |
| FLBear |
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Posted: 01 Jul 2012, 2:54 pm
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Replies: 797
Views: 204,248
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I 100%
S 1%
T 88%
J 67%
That just shows another verification of what I already know. I'm a great Misanthrope. |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: What is your opinion of circumcision? |
| FLBear |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 11:49 pm
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Replies: 1,264
Views: 21,004
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| Don't forget the profits from a circumcision, $900 for the mutilation procedure, $1200-$1800 for the sale of the now relocated part (used to produce skin grafts, etc.), $500 for resuscitation of the patient (1 in 20 stop breathing because of no anesthesia), $100's later for repairs to the offended p... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: When was the last time you got layed |
| FLBear |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 11:36 pm
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Replies: 208
Views: 3,975
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When was the last time you got laid?
Hmmm...???
Referring to another human right? That would be 2007, I believe. I have found that is a problem that comes up once in a while, but I can handle it. |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Flashbacks to traumatic memories |
| FLBear |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 11:25 pm
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Replies: 20
Views: 4,454
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| I also have the flashbacks to old traumatic events. Most can't be worked out with the perpetrator as they are dead, I am in my mid 50's. I thought it was just a weird thing I alone experienced. Glad to see, at least, that there are others with similar experiences. Starting to see a psychiatrist in 2... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Mum triggers my anxiety and possibly meltdowns - what to do? |
| FLBear |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 11:17 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 19,020
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| I seriously suggest that you just move out. Get your own place. Of course, my family problems are resolved. My adopted parents died. End of problem. But you get along with your father, so stay in communication with him. Decide for yourself how bad things really are and do what you need to do. I don'... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Did you dread the loss of your parents/grandparents? |
| FLBear |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 11:09 pm
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Replies: 26
Views: 6,926
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| I did not dread the loss of my (adopted) parents. As a matter of fact, I looked forward to it and often fantasized about how I could assist the reaper's arrival, in as painful a way as possible. Well, I received the news that my father had died when I responded to a "anyone knowing the whereabouts o... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Independant living and prolonged social isolation |
| FLBear |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 10:53 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 4,930
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| I have a great deal of company in the house, especially in the morning when nobody calls. Henry David Thoreau I have never found a companion that was so companionable as solitude. We are for the most part more lonely when we go abroad among men than when we stay in our chambers. A man thinking or wo... |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Do you "want" to reject people? |
| FLBear |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 10:33 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,935
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| I'm pretty much a Misanthrope. So I feel no need to try to attract people who are just going to drain my time and energy. |
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Forum: In-Depth Adult Life Discussion Topic: Do your friends dismiss your diagnosis? |
| FLBear |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 10:29 pm
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Replies: 32
Views: 7,698
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I have no real friends, only acquaintances, and a roommate. My roommate says there's no way that I'm an Aspie or autistic or anything.
My co-workers however say, "Oh, so that's what's wrong with you  " |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Damn queues. |
| FLBear |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 10:20 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,071
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I have the same attitude about queues ( waiting lines ) as you.
I have come up with a solution to the problem of waiting all the time. I don't. Period.
Life's too short to wait in line ( queue ). |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: I'd kill myself... |
| FLBear |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 10:13 pm
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Replies: 37
Views: 4,606
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I daily think of ending it all. Even with the Cymbalta.
What stops me from doing something permanent is the thought that just have to see what the heck is going to happen next. Kinda like watching pile-up on the freeway. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Say something positive about yourself. |
| FLBear |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 10:04 pm
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Replies: 2,644
Views: 303,686
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1. I'm not self-conscious.
2. I have survived more than 5 decades.
3. I am quite happy living alone.
4. I'm good with my hands.
5. I'm OK being different, I'm an Aspie ! ! |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Suing one's parents |
| FLBear |
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Posted: 29 Jun 2012, 8:11 pm
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Replies: 19
Views: 3,376
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I;m with you Mootoo.
I have thought of this.
However, I'm 54 and they are dead.
I Win. |
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