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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Is extreme detachment normal? |
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Posted: 07 May 2010, 9:53 am
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Replies: 7
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: The Fine Art of Sticking One's Foot in One's Mouth |
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Posted: 06 May 2010, 1:56 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,717
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| I coached myself into apathy. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Is extreme detachment normal? |
| anbhas |
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Posted: 06 May 2010, 1:35 pm
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Replies: 7
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Nice to have even a small sample group confirm I'm not alone in being alone (har).  |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Is is true that Aspie people don't tell lies? |
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Posted: 06 May 2010, 1:29 pm
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Replies: 77
Views: 11,666
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| Interpersonally, I refuse to lie, point-blank. I can't tell if you are lying to me and I certainly don't see any need to spare my feelings, so I give as I wish to receive. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: She uses me like a therapist! |
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Posted: 06 May 2010, 1:23 pm
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Replies: 20
Views: 5,238
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| My friend and I use each other in this way and we're pretty open about it. |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: "Sociopath is someone who rejects societal norms"? |
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Posted: 06 May 2010, 1:16 pm
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Replies: 24
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| Mmm, I've had the sociopath accusation levelled at me (by my estranged wife of all people) and after researching the matter, I'd disagree. Many sociopaths are egocentric and only care about the fulfilment of the self. They'll be actively anti-social, charming, disruptive, destructive and appealing -... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Alone and don't care? |
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Posted: 05 May 2010, 5:47 pm
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Replies: 53
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| I have a few very good friends online (long-term), but in person I very much keep myself to myself. |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: what kind of people rub you the wrong way? |
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Posted: 05 May 2010, 5:43 pm
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Replies: 89
Views: 18,640
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| Anybody religious and those who lie for a living (sales/HR/marketing). |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Is extreme detachment normal? |
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Posted: 05 May 2010, 5:42 pm
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| I know that we can't pick up on the emotional states of other people, but is total nullity normal? A complete lack of any emotional "spark" with people I meet. I can learn to love and care for a person, but it takes time. A person could drop dead in the street in front of me and I'd barely blink. Th... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Locked in the Neutron Star/Red Giant inspiral of death |
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Posted: 05 May 2010, 5:27 pm
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Replies: 4
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| I've been told almost exactly the same thing by every loved one in my life, but I keep coming back. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: marriage and compromise |
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Posted: 04 May 2010, 9:45 am
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Replies: 8
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| You could pass as my wife. Some of your complaints are nearly exactly what she and I went through, word for word. If nothing else, I can maybe explain your husband's problems with "his money." The other half of my marriage was extremely controlling. In issues of monies and finance, she tried to keep... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Locked in the Neutron Star/Red Giant inspiral of death |
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Posted: 04 May 2010, 9:14 am
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Replies: 4
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| Or: Pretty soon something is going to give. Ah, well, hello. This is all of my second post on this forum for all that I've lurked here for quite some time. I am - and have been - in a three year doomed marriage. I believe that I may have Asperger's based on several facets of my personality - my inf... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Well hi |
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Posted: 28 Apr 2010, 8:09 am
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Replies: 8
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| I have: Recently separated from my wife and children Entered and recovered from a period of great depression Come to suspect that I may well have Asperger's Bare, gross facts aside, I am simply interested in meeting other spouses/parents with Asperger's and maybe learning from their experiences. So,... |
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