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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Struggling NT |
| blondieamc |
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Posted: 27 Nov 2011, 9:15 pm
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Replies: 43
Views: 5,734
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| I am married to a business man who I suspect has AS. He doesn't want to do the testing for it, saying, if he is AS, "what then?". I don't know what harm can come to him if he is diagnosed with it. I don't want the diagnosis just to say that (my therapist) was right. No, I need relief from his behav... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I MAY BE OLD-FASHIONED |
| blondieamc |
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Posted: 31 Jul 2011, 6:10 pm
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Replies: 82
Views: 9,573
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| As I said: pointless. Conversations and doing things together are means of social bonding. I do have manners (when I'm not too distracted to pay attention to the other person), but pulling chairs and opening doors are ridiculously over the top for me. Are you single? You would be shocked at how app... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What is worse, rejection or being cheated on, dumped, etc? |
| blondieamc |
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Posted: 29 Jul 2011, 10:01 am
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Replies: 24
Views: 6,297
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| What do you consider the worse experience After some people may rant about constant rejection and some of the experience being harsh, as I have been there, in the end, I think that the other problems within relationships such as infidelity, abruptly calling for an end, and the usual fights, all of ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Does it matter? |
| blondieamc |
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Posted: 04 Apr 2011, 7:07 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,760
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| Yes, you can meet someone! I know it is hard for people with AS but the truth is it is hard for everyone. The biggest problem most people face is when they give up hope. If you don't have hope you don't have anything. Good luck! |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Anyone out there happy about being single? |
| blondieamc |
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Posted: 26 Feb 2011, 10:56 pm
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Replies: 137
Views: 14,003
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| It was a fluke :) I have no idea why I decided to join match and I have no idea how I fell in love and how things got so screwed up. I am going to go ahead and plead the 5th on that one and I think this community will accept that because I am 100 % NT . There was no master plan and I can promise you... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Anyone out there happy about being single? |
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Posted: 26 Feb 2011, 10:30 pm
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Replies: 137
Views: 14,003
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| I went for almost 6 years without being in a relationship. I was at a point where I was really happy being alone and just enjoying the love that I had in my life with my family, friends and the children that I teach. And then.... I joined match.com and I met a great guy who has AS. We met and instan... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Update |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2011, 6:15 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 1,428
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Advice Please |
| blondieamc |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2011, 8:03 pm
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Replies: 1
Views: 871
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| I just sent a private message |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: is there such a thing as being broken hearted? |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2011, 5:46 am
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Replies: 18
Views: 3,326
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| When you suffer an emotional loss your nervous system can be all out of whack for a while which can cause some varying degree of physical pain, fatigue and lethargy. It takes a few weeks (depending on the degree of the loss) for your nervous system to adjust and then you will slowly begin to feel be... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Special Valentine's Day Wish |
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Posted: 14 Feb 2011, 5:03 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 1,401
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| Warning: The language contained herein would not be allowed on WP. Continue at your own risk: http://theoatmeal.com/blog/valentines_day Except... it does matter to me. It does matter that all these other people are allowed to be happy and I'm not... Your comment breaks my heart. The truth is that e... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Just been dumped, need advice. |
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Posted: 12 Feb 2011, 3:26 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 3,359
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| I would just start trying to get over her and heal yourself. She does not sound like a trustworthy person. Sometimes when we are in love with someone we will overlook or justify their actions even when we know that what they are doing is not right. You are very young and you will meet someone one da... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: i hope that this is the start of something new for my life |
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Posted: 11 Feb 2011, 12:23 pm
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Replies: 28
Views: 3,548
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Good luck to you!! ! " nothing ventured, nothing gained"  |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: my mom is dying. |
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Posted: 06 Feb 2011, 12:57 pm
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Replies: 29
Views: 3,114
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| I know what you are going through because I lost my mom last year. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Break-up: Aspie style!! |
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Posted: 30 Jan 2011, 10:46 am
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Replies: 164
Views: 49,361
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| Also maybe our Aspie friends can learn how the absolute cut-off and exclusion of an ex, without warning can seriously undermine the good times you had together, and will make the ex-partner feel totally expendable and meaningless. Aspies, by definition, have a very difficult time understanding othe... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Upset about AS boyfriend's online interaction with others |
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Posted: 29 Jan 2011, 4:08 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,968
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| Another reason he might have posted that he was looking for someone who lived far away in his profile and the reason he has a long distance relationship with you is that he might already know he would not be able to handle having to be with someone everyday? My x boyfriend lived in the office of his... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Upset about AS boyfriend's online interaction with others |
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Posted: 29 Jan 2011, 3:56 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,968
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| Your long distance boyfriend is cheating on you. This has nothing to do with aspergers. He's using you. Every action and comment that you are interpreting as "sweet" is not sweet or thoughtful or caring. He's going through the standard motions to keep a girl on the hook. You have taken the bait and... |
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