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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Don't feel like I am *like* other autistic people |
| Deuterium |
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Posted: 13 Apr 2016, 11:37 am
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Replies: 60
Views: 6,900
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| I was diagnosed with aspergers years ago, and to people around me the diagnosis made sense. I did seem to fall into some of the behaviours and ways of thinking that it described. But sometimes when I read up how others describe their ASD I grow a sense of separation from what they are saying. Even i... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: When we dont hear from an ex after they found someone else.. |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2015, 5:26 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 722
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| You should try to re-read what you have posted while asking yourself if it sounds like someone who has moved on. Sometimes we try to convince ourselves that we are 'over' things, but continue to let them occupy our thoughts, which is quite contrary to being over them. If you've both really moved on ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Ethical issue - Should I just leave it alone? |
| Deuterium |
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Posted: 26 Aug 2015, 10:08 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,054
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CoffinCrawler wrote: I don't know this aspie very well and he seems like a nice guy from what I can tell. Should I let him figure it out on his own?
No, because he probably won't until he's already been hurt. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Choice |
| Deuterium |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2015, 2:36 pm
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Replies: 51
Views: 4,466
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| Having an aesthetic standard isn't what's making you look ridiculously shallow. It's reasonable to say "I want to be physically attracted to my partner," because sure, finding them hideous probably isn't a good thing to start things out with. There's a degree when you are focusing so much ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: When women get deprived from sex - they become like men. |
| Deuterium |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2015, 1:41 pm
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Replies: 25
Views: 419
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| Today we learned that some percentage of both men and women are desperate and easy to get sex from and want nothing to do with committed relationships. Actually we already knew that so we didn't learn anything at all. Nope, we learned that there are higher % of those women in certain demographics, ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: When women get deprived from sex - they become like men. |
| Deuterium |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2015, 9:39 am
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Replies: 25
Views: 419
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Today we learned that some percentage of both men and women are desperate and easy to get sex from and want nothing to do with committed relationships.
Actually we already knew that so we didn't learn anything at all. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: The Choice |
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Posted: 10 Aug 2015, 9:15 am
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Replies: 51
Views: 4,466
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RetroGamer87 wrote: I just can’t leave GF. Maybe it’s because I like her personality.
I think you've demonstrated quite well that personality isn't remotely important to you. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Anyone who lost their virginity before/in college pls help |
| Deuterium |
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Posted: 08 Aug 2015, 11:57 am
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Replies: 61
Views: 3,962
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| With my luck, if i have sex with a drunk girl i'll prob get a police record.... If you're so desperate to lose your virginity that you'd aim for a drunk girl I would really evaluate the motive behind why you want this. It sounds like it's being treated like a videogame achievement, and that you don... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: A scary example of NT female intuition |
| Deuterium |
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Posted: 08 Aug 2015, 10:18 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 971
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| Well you did like the music, just not the rapping part by the sound of it. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Anyone who lost their virginity before/in college pls help |
| Deuterium |
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Posted: 08 Aug 2015, 10:13 am
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Replies: 61
Views: 3,962
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| Consider that when we try to rush things for no real reason at all, we tend to end up with a lesser experience than the expectation we had been holding on to. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Anyone ever turn down free sex? |
| Deuterium |
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Posted: 06 Aug 2015, 10:37 am
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Replies: 143
Views: 7,161
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| I've turned it down twice, one from someone I knew for about a month, and one I knew for about 8 months and even flew cross-country to visit. Both times were because I felt like something was wrong, like there was something artificial. Like it would just be sex for the sake of sex. I'm not intereste... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: AS or Midlife Crisis?? |
| Deuterium |
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Posted: 05 Aug 2015, 8:42 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,231
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| Blaming everything on you and indirectly threatening to cheat, what a guy. I'm not at that stage to offer much advice, but when NTs come looking for help it seems like there is often a concept of having to deal with how their partner acts because their partner has AS, even if it makes the NT unhappy... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: is this equal to cheating? |
| Deuterium |
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Posted: 05 Aug 2015, 7:55 am
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Replies: 22
Views: 1,762
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| as a man, I am not going to turn down an opportunity for sexual release, and at the same time if she were to get with another guy, it would damage our relationship beyond repair. I feel pretty bad for her, that she has to deal with feeling awful for sleeping with someone five years ago when you tol... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Can you be cuddle friends? |
| Deuterium |
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Posted: 04 Aug 2015, 10:12 pm
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Replies: 4
Views: 732
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| As long as you find the right person it could work, but I believe that kind of person is pretty rare. Even people who agree to 'keep it at _____' can just get elevated in the moment and end up wanting more. While logically they want one thing, evolution can step in and push them outside of that logi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: My aspie boyfriend |
| Deuterium |
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Posted: 26 Dec 2014, 3:14 am
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Replies: 11
Views: 1,484
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| He apparently is also struggling with his own feelings toward me. He says it feels too intense and it's worrying him more that it's going to blow up. I wish there was something, anything, I could do. I will stand by him and hope for the best. I can also relate to struggling with feelings, especiall... |
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Forum: Computers, Math, Science, and Technology Topic: Should I give up gaming because it's too expensive? |
| Deuterium |
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Posted: 24 Dec 2014, 10:56 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 3,676
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| Some of those plans on reddit look too good to be true... Welcome to building your own computer and why you never buy retail again once you do. All of those parts are clickable links, and their prices as well as the outlet the price was grabbed from are listed, leaving you zero reason to believe th... |
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