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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I'm scared of relationships/contact |
| The_Danish |
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Posted: 30 Jul 2006, 8:17 am
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Replies: 21
Views: 3,754
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| I have about the same problem as you, although it has "only" been 6 months since I was dumped. It was by the person I loved the most, and I KNOW I won't be finding anyone like him again (of course I won't)... I'm also still pretty hung up on him and I still hope we can get together someday- and he's... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Hello.My name is Leela,and I am nonverbal and have HFA. |
| The_Danish |
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Posted: 19 Jul 2006, 11:34 am
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Replies: 32
Views: 4,190
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I really must say that I admire your will to keep fighting- a stroke at four must have been devastating for you! Looks like you're certainly doing a great job at getting by- you should be an inspiration to us all!
Welcome to WP- I'm pretty new here too. Hope to read more from you  |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: You're not Aspies, You're Indigo Children. |
| The_Danish |
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Posted: 14 Jul 2006, 12:14 pm
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Replies: 105
Views: 16,930
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ummm, sure...
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I don't know what's going on- need advice! |
| The_Danish |
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Posted: 13 Jul 2006, 6:28 pm
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Replies: 23
Views: 2,941
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| Should have kept the baby. Aside from the obvious reasons it would have been easier to rope him into a relationship. Excuse me, but with my mental/physical problems, no, keeping the baby wouldn't have been fair- for me, for the baby or for him. I wouldn't want to have a baby just to "rope someone i... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I don't know what's going on- need advice! |
| The_Danish |
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Posted: 13 Jul 2006, 5:37 pm
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Replies: 23
Views: 2,941
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| I'd like to chime-in as an NT who is not "power oriented and full of manipulating lie." (I can't speak for the other millions of NTs.) I'm not sure how you define "boyfriend/girlfriend." Do you both define it the same way? I think it is great to maintain a relationship with anyone you like or love,... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I don't know what's going on- need advice! |
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Posted: 13 Jul 2006, 4:56 pm
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Replies: 23
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| Danish: There is NO REASON WHATSOEVER for him not to be your boyfriend right now. Even if he's really busy, he can still be your boyfriend and just be really busy right now. The "why buy the cow" quote is about waiting until *marriage* to have sex. If this guy isn't even willing to be your boyfrien... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I don't know what's going on- need advice! |
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Posted: 13 Jul 2006, 4:52 pm
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Replies: 23
Views: 2,941
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| I assume that this guy is an NT male, as he can find girls easily. It could be true that he is a workaholic too, and loves his work as an engineer. There is probably part of his attitude to engineering that you are attracted to, after all Aspergers Syndrome was previously called Engineer Syndrome. ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I don't know what's going on- need advice! |
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Posted: 13 Jul 2006, 4:40 pm
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Replies: 23
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| I suggest you tell him that without the security of being boyfriend/girlfriend, it's too emotionally painful for you to have sex with him. Then stick to it. I think this will inspire him to make his mind up one way or the other, in pretty short order. I'm pretty happy like this- I'd love for him to... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I don't know what's going on- need advice! |
| The_Danish |
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Posted: 13 Jul 2006, 3:25 pm
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Replies: 23
Views: 2,941
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| Alright, I'll try to describe everything as good as I can... I would really like your input on this (especially if there're any NT'ers out there- but of course, aspie opinions are just as good :D ) I met this great guy in August. We fell head over heels for each other and we quickly became a couple.... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: Ask a stupid question, get a stupid answer! (ASPIE STYLE!) |
| The_Danish |
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Posted: 09 Jul 2006, 10:56 am
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Replies: 3,903
Views: 215,695
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bizarre wrote: why can't some people shutup?
They like to hear themselves talk.
If AS is a made up condition, then, what the h*ll is wrong with us?  |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Danish nerd coming through :P |
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Posted: 09 Jul 2006, 10:51 am
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Replies: 15
Views: 2,029
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| Thanks for your posts, everyone :) Wobbegong: That sounds interesting :) A "danish" (the pastry) is called a "berliner" or "wienerbread" here :lol: I guess we don't want to be classified as pastries :D "storebror" means "big brother" by the way- what a cute name! A shame they're not around anymore, ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: The term "Aspie" is a deragatory slur in my book. |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2006, 6:59 am
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Replies: 67
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| I really don't get you. It's only deragatory if people really thinks badly of you and use it as an insult- WHY get mad if they just use it, because it's easier to say? To me, it just seems like you're insulted over nothing- they don't mean anything by it, then how exactly is it deragatory? It's a fr... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Hoe to bring up AS |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2006, 6:50 am
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Replies: 3
Views: 1,100
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| I suggest asking her to look into it- ie; "have you heard of asperger syndrome?" the answer will most likely be no. You could tell her about it, maybe present her with a list of symptoms/quirks that describes an asperger. Most likely, she'll realize that it sounds like her child... If that doesn't o... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: DOES MY SON SOUND LIKE HE HAS AS |
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Posted: 07 Jul 2006, 8:03 pm
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Replies: 18
Views: 2,809
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| Kay and John, How did it all go? Any updates so far? You must remember that even though your son gets the Asperger diagnosis, he will not change- he'll still be your son, and he'll stay the way he has always been. See the diagnosis as an opportunity to help him- an opportunity to understand what is ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: AS obsession |
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Posted: 07 Jul 2006, 7:52 pm
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Replies: 21
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| Weeeeeeell.... Yes I did :oops: At first, I couldn't find a lot of information about it (danish sites are very limited), but when I started searching in English, heaps and heaps of sites came up and my hunger for information was somewhat satisfied :D Also, a friend's mom (who originally told me abou... |
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Forum: Random Discussion Topic: who plays sonic games? |
| The_Danish |
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Posted: 06 Jul 2006, 11:29 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,503
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| Sonic was my big obsession since he came out in 1991 and until a year or two ago where planes took over :P I used to be quite the genious with both games and cartoons and I knew EVERYTHING worth knowing about the Sonic universe- I used to be quite a big fan of the newer (1999) show, Sonic Undergroun... |
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